i talked to a guy for about 3 months. he called me everynight for about 3 hours. i met his family and everything. im still younger but i thought we could have been something. about 4 weeks ago, he stopped calling. now he is together with another grl. was i really not good enough for him to just stop talking to me?!?! what gives?! guys please give input also =]
2006-06-18 07:13:53 · 21 answers · asked by hiimehasmile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not good enough? Never Ever think that you are not good enough for someone. People have different taste in what they want in a romantic partner. In his eyes, you two were not compatible. That is all.
However, it was rude and cowardly of the guy not to tell you this himself. For him to just cut you out of his life like that shows how sorry he was anyway. Be glad and move on.
2006-06-18 07:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, If a guy doesn't want to talk to you it's HIS loss! Get over him, he's not worth your time or effort- Find a guy who will take care of you and and Randomly leave you, in other words find a man you deserve!! Not some Horn Doggy Player- because that's what happend you got played- Just forget about him and move on
2006-06-18 14:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about being good enough for him. In four weeks it is hard to tell if this is the right person for you. As hard as it seems perhaps he is just window shopping and four weeks from now he will be with someone new. Instead of asking am I good enough ask was he good enough for you
2006-06-18 14:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by damonsbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is just forgetting about you because of this new girl. He still likes you, as a friend, but is spending a lot of his time with this girl. from your input, it sounds like it's a rather random relationship with this girl. When/if they break up, be quick to be his shoulder to cry on. Waiting it out never hurt.
2006-06-18 14:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didnt feel a connection so what that is why you date to find a connection. You might have felt one but if he didnt then it would have never workedit isnt that your not good enough you just were not for him. Jump in and find another.
Oh yeah HAVE FUN dont take everything so serious!!!!!!
2006-06-18 14:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not you! He is just a coward. Move on. There are plenty of others. Like you said you are still young! You may have been the one to make this decision in the future!
2006-06-18 14:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by SL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you're as good as you think you are...don't let that up to anybody else to decide. And as cliche as it sounds, his loss. Your young and obviously attractive or else he would not have initiated anything. Don't waste too much of your time worrying about it...you might be letting the good ones get away!
2006-06-18 14:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Passionate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens a lot. that is what dating is for. you will go through this probably again. it is never fun. but better to find out in 3 months than 3 years.
2006-06-18 14:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens you know. Maybe he wasn't interested in you anymore after you both had spent more time together. Move on and find someone else.
2006-06-18 14:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is a playing dog! Forget him and thank God that you got away from him before it got too deep. You are perfect the way you are.
2006-06-18 14:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jen* ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋