i like this guy at my church but.......?

Question

i like this hot guy at my church. and everytime i go his brother looks back at me and then whispers something to him and then he looks back. But i am 13 and he is like15 or 16 (hes tall) i dont know what to do. should i ask him out or what. i totally need advice especially from guy. Guys what would you do if you were in this situation

Answer 1

you are toooooooo young....he probably looks back because you are all googly eyed about him....tee hee hee !!!

Answer 2

Best way to start might be to initiate a casual conversation to determine any mutual interests. You could mention some of your favorite music, then shift topic to movies ........ if he seems to be interested in getting to know you better, chances are good he might invite you to movies or maybe a concert. Some guys are shy & first dates can be awkward, so group date with other church friends could be another option.

You seem like very nice young lady .... refreshing change of pace when compared with some of the trashy comments and sexual activites of many of the other gals your age asking questions here.

Good Luck & God Bless you Sweetie.
Hope these suggestions helped : )

Answer 3

I'm not a guy..but...here goes :D
You don't exactly need to ask him out yet...if i were the guy, i'd rather establish a good friendship first, or at least talk a bit in order to know each other. I'm guessing he may know you like him since he's looking back at you. One day after church just go up to him and introduce himself (if you haven't already). Perhaps a conversation will be started and who knows what'll happen by then...
good luck!

Answer 4

You can try to get to know him through some church activities first. You know, you may well be just experiencing puppy love or a crush, since you are still an adolescent. Anyway, even if you get him to respond to you NOW, you still would have to go thru school, college, work...etc before you can build something with him. Girl, this is nature. Go, chase, but take things easy.

Answer 5

Given the fact that you are only 13, I would encourage you to concentrate on other things for now, you can pursue guys when get a bit older and more mature to cope and control your feelings. Read a book, talk to your friends, try and ace an exam.

Answer 6

OK so im a girl but hey we know some secrets too. What you should do is talk to him if you guys are not even friends then wth first be friends get to know him maybe you dont like him at the end. But if you do then ask him out or maybe hell ask you out.....

Answer 7

You're both young. He's probably attracted to you or he wouldn't be talking about you with his brother.

If I were you, I'd find an excuse to go talk to him. When you do talk to him, laugh at his jokes, tell him he's interesting/smart/cool, whatever. After you do this, he'll either start talking to you more (he's interested) or he'll back way off (he's not interested/too young to know what to do).

Answer 8

They are probably making fun of you because you stare soo much.....if you see them outside of church say hello see if he starts talking to you...you are too young to ask a guy out that isnt your age group.

Answer 9

ummm how do you know he is really intrested in you? seriously. honestly, don't ask him out unless you want your heart crushed. if you really want to know if hes into you, why don't you try talking to him instead of watching him look at you. go talk to him instead of going. yeah your parents can wait a bit for this. if he seems genuinly intrested, wait till next week and maybe he'll talk to you. don't go asking him out if you think he likes you b/c he looks at you. just talk to him and go from there.

Answer 10

What city? I think i know a lot of friends that are tall maybe I know the person .

Answer 11

It is up to you. If you really like him then go up to him and just be his friend first and get to know him then ask him out once you know that you really like him. Do what you think is right.