2006-06-18 06:50:07 · 27 answers · asked by too_big_to_handel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're consenting adults. Nothing wrong with it, but people will stare at you in public.
2006-06-18 06:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong at all...I'm in a relationship with a man that is much older than I am...but it's kind of hard. Not saying that you would have the same issues...but compatibility is a big issue...different wants at different ages...ex...he wants babies, I want to live a little...I'm chasing a career, he's winding down. I got all caught up in the passion of it and should have thought a little more about it. So if you know the person already and definitely have a connection...feel it out...see what she wants out of it...and most importantly what you want out of it. Know that if you start dating there is a 50/50 chance you guys might spark...so before you go following you're jimmy into situations...ask yourself the right questions first...cause lemme tell ya, things get real complicated real fast. But it's been done before...you won't be the first. Just be really clear and honest. Should it get that far.
2006-06-18 14:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Passionate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated older women most of my life. It's taken a few experiences to finally find the one that's right for me. Here's the biggest lesson I learned from my experiences:
Get to really know the person before committing to a serious relationship with them. In general, there is a reason that they will date someone half their age seriously; and that reason usually has to do with their maturity and responsibility level.
2006-06-18 13:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No limit on Love. Ask your self " where do you see this relationship in 1 year, 5, or 15 Years. Is this just physical for either of you? Go for it if it makes you both happy.
2006-06-18 13:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's in your heart. However, I think and older woman will have higher expectations for you. She will push you to finish your education, get a good job, pay bills, get a car, play father to grown kids, but he kids will recent you for being their age.
Wouldn't you like to grow old gracefully. When she starts looking 50 and you start seeing all these PYT how are you going to let her down?
2006-06-18 14:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a cousin who is 38 and his wife is 60. They have been happily married for 15 years now. I hate it when people try to put limits on love. When you fall in love it doesn't matter who what color age etc. your in love so be happy. Don't let anyone mess up your happiness :0)
2006-06-18 13:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Krazy In Kentucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would rather marry/date someone who looks like they are about to kick the bucket so I can benefit from the life insurance.
2006-06-18 13:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jason B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that even if she looked 45!
2006-06-18 13:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Toddacanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no right or wrong answer. love has no age but personally i think people should date those that are in their own age range. Not tryna be offensive bt thats just my theory. IF you like her then go for it.
2006-06-18 13:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong is that you dont know the challangersthat will come with that .life has a way of changing things the way we want it to be but no matter how old ,how big ,once it is true love .bet on that
2006-06-18 13:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋