My boyfriend just left me for one of my friends, and all I do is cry every night. I'm gaining alot a weight and I have no appetite. What's wrong with me? I don't even want to go outside anymore. All I want to do now is sleep and write poems. I'm so unhappy with myself.
2006-06-18 06:20:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you are depressed. Don't be hard on yourself. Your boyfriend leaving you for one of your friends is a double betrayal. If she was really a friend, she would never have paid attention to him and she wouldn't go out with him out of loyalty to you. If they started being together behind your back, that's even worse. If you are suicidal, go to a therapist immediately!! Try to go out for walks instead of eat. Eating and sleeping too much will get you more depressed. I know it's hard, but you have to force yourself to get out. Exercise is the best way to start getting over the depression. Also, talk about the problem with a trusted friend or a therapist. It helps to talk and get feedback from others instead of going over and over it in your mind. You need new information in your head; like maybe it was for the best if it got two disloyal and self-centered people out of your life. Take very good care of yourself right now. You deserve it!
2006-06-18 06:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn woman, you are letting that good for nothing win!!!! Stop this right now. Today is a great day to be single! There are more things out there to help you find people than ever before. You like poems? Look for a local poetry group or do a poetry slam at a bar. Wanna meet a ton of men and drop some weight, join a karate school. He your ex does not want you then he does not deserve you! Don't get sad! Get mad!!!!
2006-06-18 06:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Theo Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks having to see that your boyfriend goes to one of your friends and they you were thinking that your friend was on your side. The truth is, is that she got your bf, but hey dont let that bother you. You just really got attached to your bf and it will hurt now, but you will get over it in the time being. Just try not to think about it so much. Get new friends, try a new hobby. Dont stay at home all the time, or the depression is going to get greater and you wouldnt have the strength to pick up the pen and pencil to write poems. You also need to find a good motivator, start working out! Good luck girl!
2006-06-18 06:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first of all, if he left you, he's not worthy of you.
You're an attractive, intelligent person. Don't let some dude make you feel otherwise.
Instead of sleeping, eating and moping, go to the gym. A good workout will make you feel amazing, and it will make you more attractive.
Don't turn down ANY dates either. The best thing you can do is go out with as many guys as you can and let them show you how great you are. Let them buy you dinner, let them flirt, hell, take them to bed if you want. The point is, the guy that left you is gone, but it's not because you're any less of a person than you've ever been. Go back out, take care of yourself, and don't let another person bring you down. It hurts now, but it will fade. You can make the hurt disappear even quicker by going back out and seeing that your ex-bf is an idiot for leaving you. Other men will let you know, trust me.
2006-06-18 06:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It's normal to HURT after a break up. You should during this time spend time with friends and family, read books you like, go to your favorite places and do your favorite things alone. Learning to do things SOLO is a good listen for you now and in the future. Put NO ONE before yourself.
As someone else said, and my mother always said, "And this too shall pass". It's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all.
2006-06-18 06:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your always depressed because you think about it all the time get it off your mind go out and find someone better ur ex bf is useless and shouldn't matter because he left you for your friend so hes useless and you need a better guy than that and one that will treat you right. Find someone nice and helful and that won't leave you at all. and one you would be able to talk to. Well if you need anymore help email me at im_plain_hard_to_get_06@yahoo.com if I don't get back to you within 2 days email my sister shanice at tough_Hottie49242@yahoo.comshe gives great advice too.
2006-06-18 06:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by lambofgod4everz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The positive side to all of this, is during this time, you will write some beautiful poetry. I myself write poetry, and my best poems come at periods in my life when I am in despair. Life has many ups and downs, and you're in a "down" cycle right now, but you're young and pretty.........you just wait, some nice man is going to knock your socks off..........shortly. Good Luck!! And the weight gain....just MORE to love!!
2006-06-18 06:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write poems to me I've been unhappy all my life too. I can write afew unhappy poems and a few that might make you feel better. So go ahead and e-mail me.
2006-06-18 06:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey forget it hard times come in life, he is gone its ok may be there is something better for you. someone a lot better than him, someone who really cares for you, dont worry you will find him be positive and always try to have a positive outlook towards life, remember if something goes wrong then there is always somthing better waiting for you. cheer up! live ur life and forget about him u hv plenty of other things to do too.
2006-06-18 06:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What they said. Your young I bet so give it time. How r u gaining w out eating? Ur just depressed, u have it in the title. Ur just in recent mode, in time u will get over it.
2006-06-18 06:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋