going out for about 3 years and she told me she wanted a break to figure stuff out. Now, shes telling me that were on a break, but everyone else that were completely done. While ive been sobbing to her, and telling her how much i love her...In the meantime Ive been all sad and at home and not out doing anything, and now I heard shes been seen out with some other guy. Then i went and spied on her house and heard them doing stuff... :(
So do you guys have any suggestions on how to end it completely (i guess in my mind)? But yet I wanna tell her i know... I have alot of my valuables at her house still as well, so i wanna tell her its over and im coming to grab my stuff. And I wanna make it known without directly saying I know, but enough so she wonders why all of a sudden I want to call it off and get my stuff...
2006-06-18 06:00:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go over to her house with a box so you can get your stuff...
She'll get the idea that its over from that.
If you get froggy you can tell her that you know about the other guy before you walk out of the house... and don't turn back.
2006-06-18 06:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need a temporary break up from someone else then you go see other people. I think that was her way of breaking up with you so that you were left in hopes of thinking she would come back but her way of easing her conscience. At least now you see how she is and can move on. I hope you find someone who is worth your love.
2006-06-18 13:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there.
Walk away. It's over
There is nothing so valuable at her place you can't live without it.
Say nothing. Just go. She has already sent you this message.
Your love for her is undeserved and apparently unwanted.
It hurts, down deep but you will get over it.
You deserve better. You deserve a woman who knows her mind.
A Mature woman.
Save your energies for the woman deserving of your affections.
Walk away. It's over.
You don't need any reminders of your ex-relationship.
Start over, start fresh.
Let it go.
Good luck,
2006-06-18 13:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by BP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is with some one else while you two are on a break dont go and try and get back with her because i say that women who do that will go behind your back with other guys when you are at work or somewhere else shes a loser and dont bother with her she was allready a waste of time to you. good luck on finding a better G/F.
2006-06-18 13:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and ask her when is a good time to get your stuff, be nice, she may give it back and not destroy it! why are you more worried about your stuff anyway, and what would you do if someone spied on you like you did her. maybe why she found someone else? sorry dude!
2006-06-18 13:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her that much that you cant see her with another guy. Talk to her alone and tell her how much you love her and care for her snd you wish to have her back. Then give her some time and soon she will come back to u.
2006-06-18 13:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, this is why 'breaks' are never good.
sorry, but she sounds like a *****! so treat her like one. call her and tell her to have all your stuff ready coz your coming to pick them up. dont give her reasons, just go get your stuff!!!
2006-06-18 13:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man to tell you the truth I'd just go over there talk about wats goin on and tell her wat u have heard tell her you wanna end it get ur stuff and find another girl!
2006-06-18 13:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by TopshotG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are broken-up therefore she is free to do as she pleases. therefore just move on with life and find someone to occupy your time.
2006-06-18 13:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it you guys were broken up
2006-06-18 13:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋