I always wondered if sex was any fun. I've never had it. And I don't want to untill I get married. I just always wondered.
So seriously I am not pyco because I don't want kids untill I'm ready. and like when I am 30.
So please be honest tell me ALL the details to.
I am jsut wondering so please be kind.
2006-06-18 05:57:46 · 21 answers · asked by saddleclub_cowgirl145 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also want really given details on HOW to do it.
2006-06-18 06:05:19 · update #1
I WOULD ALSO LOVE TO KNOW HOW TO DO IT TO. SO IF YOU ARE NICE YOU WILL TELL ME.
RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW!!!!
2006-06-18 06:16:47 · update #2
sex should be with someone that you love and respect. and they should love and respect you.
should wait for marriage.
there could health problems when a women reaches 35yr. there are more health risks for the baby and the mom.
I wish I waited to be married before having sex. I thought I was "missing out" on sex too. started seeing all my classmates around town and they were married and on their second kids.
thought I was missing out, so I wanted to know what "it" was like too. but then got pregnant and the baby on my own. not fun after the fact.
having sex is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU LEAVE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON.
so PLEASE WAIT FOR MARRIAGE AND IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT BELIEVE ME PLEASE WAIT.
dont be in such a rush to "fit in" or "know what it is like" just to know. take your time and know what kind of person has the qualitites you want in the other person and that you take of yourself financially and emotionally on your own.
good luck and WAIT FOR MARRIAGE: YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DO.!!!!
2006-06-18 06:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
being that you sound like a minor i can say this, sex can be a beautiful thing when its between 2 adults that are very much in love and want to show it and share everything both physical and emotional with that partner. but its not something that should be taken lightly at all!!!! i had sex before i was married, and it wasn't always the best thing. sometimes i wish i had waited until i was older, and more able to handle the intense emotions that come with it. there is always some discomfort physically ( the first few times or so) and if the person you are with isn't wanting it for the same reasons as u it hurts bad. the boys may say they love you, but it takes alot more than a i love you to make sure hes the one. and yes it can be fun with the right one, and it can be the worst thing that happened to you if its not right!
2006-06-18 06:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by harmonyandericjrburns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a very wonderful thing if done with someone that you really care about, but to wait till your married is setting yourself up for a fall. Because once you start having sex its going to be a big part of the relationship. If the person is bad in bed then you are stuck cause you married him. You always test out the product before you commit to the product.
As far as details go there really isnt anyways to describe it, there is nothing like it. Its great.
2006-06-18 06:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is what makes the world go round.It can be fun, if ya want to have fun, or be very serious, if you are serious if you are in love. If you're asking this your guy is probably wondering many of the same things! 'All the details' would be inappropriate for this site. The best thing is probably ask a friend who you know has done it, married or pregnant w/e, AND you can believe & trust. Yahoo answers is convienient but some things it takes 'hands on experience!' Good luck Sweetie!
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2006-06-18 06:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you are waiting until marriage. Sex is always better with someone that have your well being in mind. When there is a commitment involved it takes away the anxiety of the person just using you for one thing and if they are really serious about you. Mainly it is the Godly thing to do. You can try Karma Sutra or Tantra to intensify your experience.
2006-06-18 06:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is beautiful. It is showing the person that you love how you feel. You should wait until you get married to find out only because you don't want to try this with just any fool. It is a very personal thing which you share with someone you really love. You don't want to regret it.
2006-06-18 06:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by lici05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably heard this a million times before. Wait until you meet someone you really like and he likes you back. Don't do it because eveyone else is. It is not always good but when you are confortable with the person, it's not awkward after.
2006-06-18 06:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by abi_sweetgirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fun, but if you are saving it for marriage, then save it. it will be more fun and enjoyable if you wait then if you were to have casual sex with men now. why do you want to know? are you worried you are missing out on something? your not, trust me. with sex comes heartache's, hurt feelings and confusion. not to mention all the STDS out there. save it girl, there are not many like you out there so keep it up and don't give in to pressure.
2006-06-18 06:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont worry about sex untill you are ready to do it as far as i know for a chick the first time it apparently hurts not sure how much it hurts but thats what ive been told.
2006-06-18 06:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is fun. I don't blame you for waiting til you get married I did it too. As far as kids go they are a huge responsibility so waiting on that is also good. It will be worthwhile when you do it.........trust me.
2006-06-18 06:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋