my nephew who is 15 years old mildly autistic, ADD as well as some emotional problems was caught by my sister haveing sex with her boyfriends 11 year old daughter. now the 11 year old is saying he raped her. mind you she is more mentaly developed than he is. her case worker even told her father that he should expect her to be pregnant within the next 2 years. her mother is a drug user, has lost custody of her other children and has in the past that we know of had sex with many men, while the girl hid in the closet.she was also sexualy abused by her mothers boyfriends brother a few years ago. she strives for attention and does anything to make her parents happy wich includes lying or changeing the story so she doesnt get into trouble, her mother will get her to say and do anything to make herself look good and her dad look bad. she is much more developed than any girl her age. i just want to know what is the most likely out come. my sister also has other small children in the home
2006-06-18 04:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by concerned aunt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Depending on the nature of his handicap, he may or may not be held accountable for his actions.
Rape by force is against the law. So is consensual sex if the person in question is under the state's minimum consent age. If both parties are under minimum age, then they've both committed a crime.
Whether or not this case ever goes to a juvenile court, that's up in the air and tons of things could influence it either way.
2006-06-18 05:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is hard but she should not have been doing that with a 15 year old and she does need her mom and her mom's boyfriend to be in some sort of center.she also can't say that he raped her because he is autistic and she knew what she was doing.
2006-06-18 05:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible mess! Whether the 12-yr old girl is "developed" or not is irrelevant. She is a child. PERIOD. Your nephew has done very wrong. It should be understood that it´s not the girl´s fault. Both of the children need immediate help.
2006-06-18 05:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by kmacgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her case worker expects her to be pregnant soon she should get her on birthcontrol, although thats sounds like an odd thing for a case worker to say w/o acting on it. obviously the girl needs counseling and love. as for the boy, mental prob is no excuse for what he did, he either knew it was wrong, in which case he should be punished. or he didnt, in which case he should NEVER again be left alone with a child.
2006-06-18 05:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by osagegirl1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the law sort it out. What an ugly mess. Don't blame the 11 year old. She is still a baby no matter what she's been through. She has been horribly abused and your nephew made it even worse.
2006-06-18 05:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
in louisiana the law iz if u under 17 and ur with a guy older hez goin away.. i dk bou anyhing yunger.. ive been n dhat sit .. but no one went to jaiL!!
2006-06-18 04:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by ButtErFLy4'7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to ask a lawyer about that. I am not sure how that works when you have special needs.
2006-06-18 05:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by tabatha16us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that girl knew he was mentally unstable and she could have easily told him no. but as for me i t the girl provoked him into doing it
2006-06-18 05:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on in this world?
2006-06-18 05:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by The Guru® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be counted as rape of a minor
2006-06-18 05:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋