Last night my boyfriend of two years and I had sex a little differently. We had our regular outstanding sex, but then, I ended up humping him from the behind. I even flipped him over on his back and lifted his legs in the air while one of my legs rubbed against his ******. I am a former lesbian and he knows this. Likes the idea of it actually. We've never had a threesome, and don't plan to. I am too jealous for that, and so is he.
He's completely heterosexual as far as I can tell, and he's never gave me any reason to question his sexuality until last night. I completely, COMPLETELY enjoyed myself and I want to have this kind of sex over and over. I just want to know if this happens in other heterosexual relationships?
P.S. We have a very close relationship and are each other's best friend. While I was humping him from behind he did say, in an effort to relax me, "It's just me and you....just me and you. Do whatever you want." Was he just trying to please me or what?
2006-06-18 04:01:24 · 15 answers · asked by Arii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok to enjoy different types of sex as long as both people are comfortable. There are very sensitive nerve endings in the "back door" area that can bring pleasure. There is no reason to panic or question his sexuality. Enjoy!
2006-06-18 04:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course he was trying to please you. No, its not too kinky. Whatever happens in your bedroom is your business and is completely up to you guys. Sex is about pleasing your partner and be pleased. Sounds like you two had a great time and that's good. I wouldn't question it at all. Must be doing something right huh? Keep having fun is what I say.
2006-06-18 04:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too kinky. Sounds like he was totally enjoying it, which doesn't make him gay. People have many errogenous zones that often go totally ignored. This is because of our society that tries to make us think that anything other than heterosexual missionary style intercourse is "dirty", taboo. If you are two consenting adults, go for it!
2006-06-18 04:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by AddieJN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to first remember that there is nothing "kinky" if both parties are comfortable with what you're doing and nobody is harmed by it.
When it comes to sex, don't over-analyze it. Go with the flow. If you both enjoy it ... it doesn't matter why. Enjoy yourselves, and don't over-think it.
2006-06-18 04:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rob R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just me and you--he's trying to egg you on, and wants you up in there, just be gentle and go slow. i don't think it's really gay, you are a girl and it's just another part of the body. there's a technique to slip a finger with a bj most gals aren't into it cause they think thier mans gay but if your an openminded person it can be pleasurable.
2006-06-18 04:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not suggesting anything, but there IS a popular porn film called "Bend Over Boyfriend".
2006-06-18 04:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey whatever rocks your boat!You are 2 consenting adults if that's what you want to do and you are both okay with it,knock yourselves out.
2006-06-18 04:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GAy !!! be carefull when their is a guys night. You opened the GAY door so if you ever piss him off he might just let his budies in through the back door.
Good Luck & Good F****NG
2006-06-18 06:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Victor Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat. His comment sounds somewhat submissive.
2006-06-18 04:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by williegod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not too kinky and there is no such thing as former lesbian. If you ever was lesbian you always will be.
2006-06-18 04:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋