How To Save A Torn Family Chapter 2?

Question

A few days ago I ask a question on should I find my brother or not. The topic was HOW TO SAVE A TORN FAMILY? I meet up with him on that Saturday. He recognize me instantly, I called him brother. I could see in his face that he was happy to see me. I waited till he finished his work then we went out for coffee. I asked how are you, and what have you been doing lately? He said nothing much his just dieing. At first I thought he was joking, but he gave me hug and cried. I can’t help wondering what he is suffering from. I didn’t ask him but he said then he’ll be going to Manila next week. I told him why don’t we both go back home and see mom & dad or aunt. I m sure they will be happy to see you, it’s been so long. Then he said it’s to late now I have to go, I am tired and he left the coffee shop. I followed him back to where he was staying, it was near the club and it seams to be a hostel.
The next morning I want there to have breakfast with him. I asked what do you plan to do in Manila? He said he wants to travel around the world before he dies. I was speechless because he sound so determined. He even showed me the flight ticket. I didn’t talk much about my self today but I let him talk. After that I went back home to rest, the whole night I didn’t get much sleep. I want to know my brother more, I m thinking of resigning from my job and joining him in Manila. I can’t loose him again; I need to find out more about him. I feel like I owe him too much.

Answer 1

Go with him if you don't you may regret it until the end of time if you have any doubts just make sure you have enough money to get home at any time you want to you really have nothing to loose and a lot to gain good luck I wish you well

Answer 2

First, don't resign from your job. Talk to your boss or human resources and find out if you can take an extended leave of absence. Second, don't just plan to travel with your brother, find out if he would like the company. Third, find out what he is dying from. Maybe he is just realizing that his life is moving on and he hasn't done anything he wanted to do, some people make lists of things they want to do with their lives and some accomplish this list, others don't. Also, if he is dying from something, get the facts - what is the prognosis. You don't want to be in another country and he should die and then you have to figure out how to get his body home for burial. Talk to your family. Pray and contemplate what you want to do, but also consider what he might want.

Answer 3

No one can replace your brother and it sounds as if he is very important to you. If you don't make that trip to manila you might regret it, i wouldn't say quit your job, but I'm sure your work place would be compassionate to allow you some time off, and whats important is that you make the best of the time you have with your brother.

I wish you luck.

Answer 4

Oh hun! Such a heart felt story. I agree that you should go with him but talk to him about it first and speak from your heart. Get to know each other. Have good times and bad together. I wish you all the very best with whatever you choose to do. My heart goes out to you and your brother xxxx

Answer 5

FIRST and most of all PRAY to JESUS and listen to the Holy Spirit he speaks softly and if you listen you will be guided in the right path. The Lord will lead you in the right path and he will protect you always no matter what might happen but expect to hear from JESUS he is answering you right now.And i know without a shadow of doubt you all will be fine.

Answer 6

You need to take him out to lunch and give him a chance to tell you, if he doesn't maybe you should ask.

Answer 7

Go! what are you waiting for?