hi people, i would prefer ladies replying to this cause it would help me get their side of the story.. ladies, i ve been in a relationship for over a yr and for the last 6 months my relat has not been very good...not like it used to be. i love my gf a lot but there are certain things she does that makes me mistrust her and doubt our relat a lot. To tell u one lil incident is that i ve caught her making eye contacts with other guys while we r out together. This makes me feel horrible cause i always give her my whole attention and i feel she's not doing justice..my self esteem takes a big hit and im left wondering if she indeed loves me.. ofcourse when i brought it up wih her she flatly refuses tht she ever does such things but ive caught her not once but 3 or 4 times... what do i do? pls tell me ladies.
2006-06-18 03:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by fcukind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey guys i read most of the replies... i did confront right at the moment she did it but she denied or said stupid stuff like "i jus notice everyone in the room" but guys its always been some *** hole tries to make eye contact... im not being jealous, i jus feel im getting the short end of the stick.. it makes me insecure cause now shes in another town and we wont be able to c each other for a while and it makes me wonder what she'll do now cause shes alone there as in im not around. Its not like women dont hit on me..actually a quiet of them do but i ve always cut them off cause i love this girl too much... i jus makes me mistrust her a lot mroe and she gets pissed and says i have a problem.
2006-06-18 04:09:04 · update #1
Does she say that she loves you??? Not that I'm making excuses for her, but maybe she likes playing the flirting game. But, she shouldn't be doing anything like that when you are together. And as well, if she feels that there is a committment there, she shouldn't be flirting with anyone else except YOU!!!!! Should she??? Why don't you ask her if she is happy with the relationship between the 2 of you??? See what her answer is. If you don't feel it is the answer that you want, then she is not the person for you, then move on. All the best to you.
2006-06-18 03:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by winona e 5 · 15⤊ 6⤋
she made eye contact with another guy???
That sounds so horribly jealous & paranoid on your part.
Why don't you just ask her how she feels, if things have changed... tell her you're sensing that things 'aren't right' between you and you want to know if there's something bothering her.
Don't accuse her of cheating due to eye contact - thats insane! Even if she was flirting in front of you - she may have been doing it so obviously so that you'd notice in order to get you to talk with her about whatever it is thats REALLY bothering her.
2006-06-18 10:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear u need to talk to her
being a girl i can tell u that u just sit with her n talk to her straightway n draw some conclusion.
once a way u just little ignore her n c d effect .
if she wants u then she wl b back n if she dont then she wl continue with the same as she is doing nopw
n u wl b in proper position to decide wat to do.
poonam
all d best
take care
2006-06-18 10:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rushik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u c her looking at the guy confront her say u just saw her looking at that guy and if that dosnt work than kick her to the curb
2006-06-18 10:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by teardrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably does not realize she is doing it but when she does it at that second point it out to her and if she still denies it then leave her because then she does not love you
2006-06-18 10:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her if it lasts less then 5 minets dump her cause she donten love you at all sry
2006-06-18 10:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by croc.rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm ull get the signs
2006-06-18 10:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋