2006-06-18 03:22:42 · 21 answers · asked by becky5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe that we ever fall for the "wrong" guy. I believe that we are always intuitively drawn to just the right person who is perfectly qualified to present us with the necessary experiences we need at that time in our lives for us to grow from. As long as we're open to learning about ourselves and evolving as individuals, this truth becomes self-evident in hindsight.
2006-06-18 03:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Skye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who hasn't fallen in love with me is smart as i am such a boring guy. Ok but anyways, to answer your question, you fall in love because you like something about those types of guys. But you have to be realistic, if it's not working, if it's always WRONG.. then look for other type of guys
2006-06-18 03:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't learned your lessons yet.
Make a list of what you want in a guy AND STICK WITH IT! I made a list, and spent my time with only guys I thought were worthy of my time. I didn't go to bars, I didn't go to clubs to meet them.
I met them at large Church groups, investments groups-meetings, etc.
Eventually, I met a guy who had everything I dreamed of. It took me 29 long years, but we married, and have been happily married for 21 years!
If you hang with the wrong guy, chances are you will fall in love with the wrong guy.
You have to learn to use your time to make sure you are meeting the right guys. Don't let loneliness make decisions for you. It's hard being single, don't let anybody fool you.
Oh, I forgot to tell you: PRAY A LOT! God knows your heart, He knows you better than anybody else. Ask Him to guide you, and you'll be surprised where He'll take you.
2006-06-18 03:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of wrong guys out there and only a few right guys so the odds are just better.
2006-06-18 03:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by themainsail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong..
Just the time..is wrong..to fall in Love..
2006-06-18 03:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by wildkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to just HAVE FUN with the wrong guys.... while you're waiting for Mr. Right to come along!
:D
Don't fall in love so quickly & easily
2006-06-18 03:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in most female's genes and is heavily influenced by society, the media, and the opportunity for the exquisite excitement of a bad boy, and for some, the oddesy of changing a bad boy.
2006-06-18 03:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we convince ourselves that we can make them the 'right' guy. it's a delusion that we bring upon ourselves.
the sooner we realise that the wrong guy will always be the wrong guy for us, the easier it will be not to fall in love with them.
2006-06-18 03:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we punish ourselfs. I mean we never learn, look at me i like a guy that is soo wrong for me hes in jail and im kinda trippin over this guy. But the bottom line is if u really like this guy go for it i mean he might like u too. Like they say its better ro have luved and lost then to have never luved at all.
2006-06-18 03:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason I alway do with the wrong girl:)
2006-06-18 03:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋