Ladies. Gentlemen. I hate men at the moment. I keep meeting men who are too much headache. They either get SO attatched and dont leave me alone and go on all stalker like. Or they just want casual sex and act like they are too nice, which puts me off and I'm gone. No happy medium. So I ask the world of Yahoo! Answers whats going on? Where has the Sexy Gentleman gone?
2006-06-18 01:53:44 · 20 answers · asked by Ms.Trouble 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NB for the record, my Dad doesnt count weirdo. I bought him some Givenchy for fathers day, and a toblerone. so there. and im sure back in the day, he was just as bad.
2006-06-18 02:05:07 · update #1
Kenk24 - ICEQUEEN is the name given to me by my mates - as I am a singer and an MC - you need a nickname.
2006-06-18 02:25:21 · update #2
So you want a man who can be attached to you and only you but you don't want him to follow you around like a puppy dog or get the idea he's now your parole officer. You want him to care and be concerned but not think he has the right to know every little thing you do or occupy your every waking moment. You want him to be physically attracted to you and make his desires known but you don't want him to 'suck up' like some school boy hoping to make his first 'score'. You'd like him to let you know that the pursuit of sex with you is more than a tumble in the hay and show that in more sophisticated and sensitive ways other than a slap or pinch on the behind or that sneaky little rub of the thigh. A nice card with some flowers and an invitation to dinner and knowing he's just holding his breath waiting for you to accept. Something along these lines but I'm sure you have you're own version of how this should go. There are still gentleman like this.
2006-06-18 02:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you too are not sure what you want in a guy.. You probably want like a guy with the body of a 20 yr old - the maturity of a thirty yr old and the money of a 50 yr old.. check out yourself and what you might be giving off - - start out with hate and you will get nowhere - sounds like you need to take a break - I mean it - ICE and Queen - what are you putting out there that might attract the kind of man you want? - - - good luck - your smart - you'll figure out what you want..
2006-06-18 02:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crappiness is in all of us, women or men....it depends on the time and place...The gentleman you or all of us want to have must come on it's own, it's like we can't have what we want right now! Everything has it's right time and in it's right spot, I personaly found my guy when least expected so maybe it's better to get it out of your system and like a shadow it will walk to you and not running away from you...the right person will come when you are totaly confident inside and out so work on yourself only....have fun and don't wait for having fun with him...he'll come at the right time...
2006-06-18 02:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by faranak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe or not, actually i have same question toward u as a woman.
i ever want to ask, but i just think is just a stupid question.
what i experience
every time i just knew a girl and i like her
1)if i give care too much to that girl, they run away from me.
2)if i act cold to that girl, ( as learning from experience after act 1, they will turn hate me for being cold if coincidence the girl like me too.
tell me how a man can give a balance care ? how man suppose to know ?
2006-06-18 02:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem could be that you're only looking for men who are sexy. Are you also looking for good qualities that will indicate that those men will treat you with respect?
So many times, people look for other people to date based on superficial qualities like looks, and then when the people they date turn out to be jerks, they say "all men/women are bad." That doesn't make sense.
2006-06-18 01:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r gentlemen out there u r just looking in the wrong place and like most of us woman u r attracted 2 the asshole lol somebodies really bad cosmic joke.the ones that we r not attracted 2 r the good catches so of course we r not attracted 2 them causing our own problems.
2006-06-18 01:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to attract the perfect man, you must be the perfect woman for him. If you are a little rough around the edges, what do you expect? The perfect man will pass you by. You get what you give.
2006-06-18 02:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it's normal you hate them guys sometimes. Some of them are created to be hated, you see, and they hate themsevles, too. But you'll soon find someone special, and forget all about these, and enjoy the relationship. So just hope and wait.
2006-06-18 01:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at the moment...ME TOO! But I won't give up cause I know there are some gentlemen out there.
2006-06-18 01:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by xalsk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are hard to find but do exist, maybe ur looking in the wrong places. try parks and sporting events or singles parties are good bedause they are also aving a hard time trying to find a nice girl if they are there.
2006-06-18 01:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by topcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋