Whats with all the purity rubbish as a good thing?

Question

What's purity got to do with love or sex and why are things like absteinance seen as good things... They are not.

Having it forced on you only hurts more then anything =lonliness.

It means you don't know what you are doing and won't have confidence or self esteem. Only hurt and see your self as worthless.

So why tell kids that... it only huerts them and is a form of abuse...

Much better to tell people how they can pull so they always have someone to cuddle up with and feel close to rather then empty and hurt.


Likewise those who pull easy know what they are doing when it comes to getting with that person they really liek as practiced with others... that way they can chat up the person they want to be soul mates.

If not someone better who had more practice (practice makes perfect) gets with them & all you have left is hurt, porn, tossing off or if female vibrators.


As all your friends couple off & you are on your own or if with yonger single people looked down on

To annoymous... Did do the research... Everyone I have met who satared young did well. No stds... They used their practice and rookie stuff to help them find that soulmate as when they met them they were confident and could chat them up. Not mess up the date and stay with them as not rubbish in bed anymore.

Those who waited only got rejected all the time, hurt and needy and females don't go for the lonly or needy so its

no job no experience, no experience no job.


So constant rejection is pyschologically harmful, Constant success is benefitial.


Then when you meet mR or Mrs right you are with them as you want to. You can be with anyone but chose them..

Not with them as could not get with others so took what you could get before someone else did.

Likewise its the ones who don't get to be with people that hurt themselves, try and top themselves, end up messed up...


Those who got lucky from a young age didn't as happy, They dont end up lonely or hurt ie abused

Answer 1

Loneliness is a huge problem with so many. We all desire to have someone. However the alternative is not so great either. It only looks better. My suggestion is to go after a worthy goal, something you can get passionate about. Get your mind off of your loneliness and your singleness, and live. Take Spanish and learn. Go to Antigua, Guatemala and live with a host family there while you go to Spanish school there. Be sure to drink apple cider vinegar in some water and take acidophiles daily if you go. Montezuma's revenge is real. Wander the various paths around Antigua and visit other pueblos. You'll love the bus rides. Chofer, chofer más velocidad, chofer, chofer, más velocidad...

Answer 2

that is complete shyte and it is not a question, it is a statement. Telling your children to abstain from sexual involvement is NOT a from of abuse, it is actually psychologically beneficial for a person to remain as monogamous as they can, and the more they sleep around, the less fulfilled they will feel sexually when they find someone that they want to stay with permanentally. Do some research before you make such a bold statement that is likely to offend a large percentage of the population. Those who feel that one should wait for marriage or at least for true love before giving in to your desire actually have psychology behind them. Purity standards, boundaries, and abstinence are good for the mind, lessen the risk of STDs, and allow for better sexual fulfillment once you have found your permanent partner. Think about it, if you only ever have sex with one person, he or she is guaranteed to be the best sex you ever had by default.

Answer 3

wow!!! this is the longest question I ever seen!