HELP whats wrong with me????

Question

i think im losing it, ive left my mates,my job,uni. everything i liked before i dont like anymore, im so angry at my brother for commiting suicide, he left me by myself,what i feel now is driving me to suicide,ive been drinking nearly everyday and started smoking again, i dont know what to anymore. IM SO SCARED TO SEE ANYONE ABOUT WHAT I FEEL!!??

Answer 1

Have you ever wondered about the reason of our existence? Have you ever wondered why we die, and where we go after death? What will happen to us in the end? Have you ever asked yourself why God made the earth and all that is in it under man’s dominion? Why were the night and the day, and the sun and the moon created? What are we supposed to do during our lifetime? Were we created just to eat, drink, and enjoy ourselves before we die? As one poet put it:
“I do not know whence I have come.
I saw my feet walking on the road.
As they please I go and stop.
What am I doing here?
How did the road find me?
I do not know! I do not know! I do not know! ”

God has emphasized in many verses of the Qur’an that He did not create us without purpose. He said: “What! Do you think that I created you simply in jest? And that you would not be returned to Me?” (23:115) He also said: “What! Does man think that he will be left to roam at his will?” (75:36) In addition, He said: “Do people think that they will be left to say: “We believe,” and they will not be held accountable?” (29:2)
Indeed, God Has created human beings for a purpose and with a purpose: TO WORSHIP HIM ALONE (Monotheism). He said: “I have not created the Jinn and humankind except only to worship Me. I don't require provision or feeding from them. Surely Allah is the All-provider, the Possessor of all strength, the Firm.” (51:56-58) In fact, all prophets told their people to worship God alone (Monotheism) and shun worshipping His creation (Paganism). God said: “I assuredly sent among every people a messenger with the command: Worship Allah and avoid worshipping false gods.” (16:36)
Prophet Abraham, for example, believed in One God, who had no partner. Anyone who holds a different understanding of God than this has contradicted the religion of Abraham and follows falsehood. God says in the Qur’an: “Those who reject the religion of Abraham make fools of themselves.” (2:130)
Prophet Jesus was reported in the Gospels to have said: “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only’.” (Luke 4:8)
Prophet Jacob also said (in the Qur'an) to his people: “Indeed, those which you worship besides Allah are only names that you and your forefathers have established, for which Allah has sent down no authority. The command belongs only to Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him. That is the right religion, but most people do not understand.” (12:40)
Read more about the TRUE BELIEVE which supported by the Miracle Holy Quran :
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.pdf

http://www.harunyahya.com

http://muslimconverts.com

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Real happiness and peace can be ONLY found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Qur’an: (Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest.)
(Qur’an, 13:28)

On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Qur’an will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:
(But whoever turns away from the Qur’an, he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment.) (Qur’an, 20:124)
This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.
To read the stories of people who have converted to Islam, please visit

http://www.islam-guide.com/stories

At this web page, you can read the thoughts and feelings of these people, who are from different countries and have different backgrounds and levels of education.
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Answer 2

Something is wrong if it infringes on a person's natural rights. All people are entitled to things such as life, liberty, and prosperity. So if you kill a person, you take away their life. If you put them through dominance and abuse without their consent, you take away their liberty. If you steal their property or money, you are affecting their prosperity. Something is right if it preserves those natural rights and promotes them for others. If you save someone, work to give people suffrage, or give to charity, you are doing the right thing. However, the line between right and wrong often becomes blurred. For instance, suppose you kill a murderer who broke into your home to save your own family. In this example, we can dissect your actions and judge them individually to be either right or wrong. Killing the man was wrong, but protecting your family and property was right. In this case, the number of right actions and the amount of good that was done is greater than the evil, so you would be right in this situation.

Answer 3

Hey U!
I just read ur note and it sounds as if u need somebody to talk! I was exactly doing the same a few month ago.I drank nearly everyday, I started smoking again even though I had quit... My life seemed as if it was just going down Hill and I seriously thought about giving up! But please you have to know that sometimes we have to go through these times which doesnt mean it will always be like that!!!
I didn believe it myself... but you have to start thinking positive thoughts and your emotions will follow. What exactly happend to ur brother and how are ur parents coping?

Answer 4

Wow, you're going through more than most people ever have to endure. No wonder you're scared. You're whole life has flip-flopped. I understand how hard it is to see someone and talk about your feelings. Is there a suicide or crisis hotline in your area? Sometimes it's easier to talk to over the phone instead of face to face. Please, please make that call if you can. There is hope ahead, even though you can't feel that now. My deepest condolences to you on your brother's death. I've experienced suicide in my family and unless you find someone to talk to about it, it can destroy you as well.

Answer 5

I had to experience 2 suicides in my family.You have every right to be angry.Please find somebody or a good counselor to talk to.Go to AA for atleast the support of a group of people.Apply to another university.The beauty of life is that you can always start over.Don't beat yourself up about smoking.Just try to get through this day.Go back and talk to your boss and explain why you left.Take care of yourself

Answer 6

what you are experiencing is a type of post traumatic stress disorder---it is nothing you've caused and it is not your fault that it is happening---but it can and could take your life if left untended--you have simply got to go NOW and get this in front of a doctor--and everything has to be put on the table--everything-Because of the disorder you are not thinking clear and then on top of that you are altering what clear mind you have with booze--not a good thing---There are things left for you in this life that you haven't even began to give thought to ---beautiful things --but not if you don't get some help to put this thing away-----GO NOW--your life truely depends on it--------and Peace

Answer 7

You should see your doctor. Youre going through the emotional phases of lose. It's normal to feel angry. There is no reason to suffer, you can get help from a doctor. It'll be worth it.

Answer 8

stop ur self from getting addicted to alcoholic drinks n also go sea a doctor who deals with people who r in depression or sum sickness. i think u have lost ur confidence n self esteem too that u r scared of seing someone or doot want to see anyone due to ur brothers incident. sorry 4 all that!

Answer 9

YOU HAVE SUFFERED A GREAT LOSS AND YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL THE WAY YOU DO. HOWEVER, DON'T LOOK AT IT AS YOUR BROTHER LEFT YOU BY YOURSELF, LOOK AT IT AS ONLY A LOSS. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU HAVE A LOT TO LIVE FOR. YOU COULD TAKE THIS AND WRITE A BOOK ABOUT IT AND TRAVEL THE WORLD HELPING MILLIONS OF PEOPLE OVERCOME THE SAME THING. PLEASE MAKE THIS YOUR NEW LIFE'S PURPOSE AND HELP OTHERS. THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE WHO NEED YOU.

Answer 10

You really should go and see your doctor they really do help, I have gone through simular experience and they have helped me, it took a little time but life does go on.
Sorry to hear about your brother it is not a nice thing for anybody to have to experience but you really do need to pull yourself together and start looking after yourself.
Good luck