I am so disgusted that i dont know what to do.
should i leave home?
2006-06-18 00:49:10 · 32 answers · asked by s21181 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, break up with your boyfriend. Second, tell your mom how you feel and ask for an explanation. Third, if you are old enough than yes leave home. If not, stay at home and use your close friends for moral support.
2006-06-18 00:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by songbird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops, I hope he is now your ex (if was something)
and she had a good explanation so you can feel confident they were not anything other than two people on a couch.
If they were together as in coupling, then I'm really sorry to hear that. Your mother should have had enough respect for her daughter to say no or stay away from what wasn't hers.
I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive her if this is the case as families are much more than a moments lust-don't let this betrayal get you down too much, fight back with forgiveness-for YOU! You may take a long time to trust her again but it does come back with time. Try and look at this from all angles before being the judge and jury of the situation.
Good luck and God Bless You!
2006-06-18 00:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give a little more info for this...not too much mind u, but what were they doing? but anyway, u need to talk to ur mum - tell her how upset u are about this and then maybe, if ur old enough, move out. The best thing I ever did for the relationship with my parents was move out (when I was 19). You need to keep communication open with ur mum and sometimes this is easier if ur not living together. Maybe if ur too young to move out or not financially able, you could stay with a friend for a few days while u try to work it out -just remember; shes ur family, and family are always more important than boyfriends.
Good luck :o)
2006-06-18 01:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by karma_au_1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not sure how old you are but running isn't always a good idea. Remember guys will come and go but trust between you and your mom is a must. There are trust issues you and your mom need to sort out but if your relationship with eachother is otherwise good than I wouldn't leave home. However I would seek couseling for both of you because there are obvious issues that need attention.
If a guy cheated on you with your mom or the president he would have cheated on you anyway and you don't need him. I wouldn't waist my time stressing over him.
2006-06-18 00:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Plucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still life in the old gal I think. Haven't you heard that it is blessed to share. Actually I think I would be looking for a new boyfriend and a new place to live as well. Don't make an issue of it just make plans to live your own life.Not nice at all.
2006-06-18 01:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by 'on the couch' i'm assuming that they were doing more than just watching the telly. if you are finacially able, you can move to another place. but moving does not solve the problem, it would haunt you unless you face it head on. face your mom and tell her that she had crossed lines by doing what she did. tell her that you cant live with her even. tell bf that its over between you and him and that you dont want him to contact you ever. if you have a close friend, it may be best to move there for sometime.
2006-06-18 01:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this presents the respect your mother and boyfriend have for you. I would suggest leaving home, if you have the means to do it. If I saw my dad with my gf, I would be more than disgusted.
2006-06-18 00:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leaving home is not hte solution to the prob. talk to ur mom,heart to heart and ask anything u want to know without hesitation. But then talk cool, u dont have to put emotions even though how painful it is. and tell her what u feel. then after that i think talk to ur bf and see whayts really going on. and if he answers with really rediculous thing dump him. its no better than a rotten rat.
2006-06-18 00:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by lovingheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cut off your nose to spite your face.
You need to talk with your Mom.....and your Dad.
They both should have had more respect for you. You need to go to another adult you trust, and talk this out. There is a solution, you just have to find it.
But, don't go running away. You would be very vulnerable. It is a very cruel world out there.
I'm really sorry you are going through this.
2006-06-18 00:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They obviously have no respect for you. By now you should have left your boyfriend, and your mum, should have apologised, and talked to you, about how and why it happened. If not you should talk to your mum. Don't leave home, unless you find it necessary.
2006-06-18 01:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by designer_gurl1810 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋