we were freinds ... 8 years ago .. after 3 years and half i discovered my self love her ... and after trying to tell her in 8 months .. coz i felt that she had the same feelings .. and i was right ...but she had a problem ... our freind love her too ...
WE BOTH LOVE HER ...
but i think she is in my side ... he is out of country .. and he will back in 2 months ...
What should i do ?
2006-06-18 00:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by The ZooM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you both love her, than maybe she need to know this.
In the end its going to be a decision that she will have to make, if there is even one to make. She might be playing you both, not sure, circumstances are quite specific. So ask her how she feels and take it from there!
2006-06-18 00:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had similar experience. but i guess if both of you really love each other, then i dont think there is anything much to worry about. the best is to come clean with that guy who is gonna come back in 2 month's time.
since both guys love her, it means that the decision lies in her hands. she chooses, not any of u guys have the right to decide who she goes with.
but if that guy could not take it that both of you now are a couple, then it is totally up to him how he takes it. you cant possibly make the best decision that pleases every party, someone's gotta get hurt, though not intentionally. nobody can decide and control how another person should feel.
all the best to you. as for me, i am now very happy with my present boyfriend for 3 years now, and our good friend who used to like me too is now happy in ukraine...
2006-06-18 07:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by cynewulve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either take advantage of the situation (that your friend is away) or wait for him and talk to him first. I guess it depends on how close you are to your male friend. If you guys are best friends, they you might want to talk to him first.
2006-06-18 08:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ripper22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her before your friend an let her choose
2006-06-18 07:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what u have to do...if that other guy is really ur friend, he will understand..
ask this girl about her true feelings for u and ur other friend..
2006-06-18 07:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by kasumi101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her...don't let a girl ruin friendship!
2006-06-18 07:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by 【ツ】ρεαcε! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋