I love sex, and our sex together is the best. But as much as I hate to admit it while he is gone I get cravings that need to be fullfilled. I'm not talking about carrying on another relationship with someone but rather just purely sex.
2006-06-17 22:29:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your boyfriend is great and you guys have a good relationship i wouldnt recommend taking a chance on messing it up just for casual sex because you have a certain urge that needs to be satisfied. what i do recommend is investing in a great dildo and learn to please yourself. you'll maintain your dignity and self respect. you just might discover that no one can please you the way that you can. good luck
2006-06-20 09:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by princesaa20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship based solely on sex is not a true relationship, if you have these desires then beware it is a signal there is something else missing, maybe it's a thing called love, but if your relationship has been strictly sexual I would say your actually in need of something different.Open Relationships are very hard to maintain but it can be done as long as everyone involved is on the same page. But it will not last, trust me I know because I have been there myself you need to be upfront with him about it and understand if you can mess around, he should be allowed too as well. Now if such activity is accepted by both parties and then used to enhance your sexual relationship then it may not be such a bad thing after all.
2006-06-17 22:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Art P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship with your boyfriend were really that great you wouldn't have ANY desire to sleep around.
How would you feel if your boyfriend went out on you?
Dont do it....IF you want to have more than one boyfriend then tell your man about it. If he is not that committed to you either than I guess you will both have more than one relationship.
Of course this means you aren't serious or ready for a long term committment.
Don't hurt the one you are with. I've seen too many guys hurt by women...It is really sad and actually quite mean.
Break up with this guy...You don't really love him... Then you can just play around til you grow up enough to want to have just one special relationship...Why hurt another person????
You aren't bad...just not thinking....take care.
2006-06-17 22:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by ceasefear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats pathetic. If you really thought you had a "great" girlfriend, you wouldnt dream of cheating on her. Sex isnt worth ruining a great relationship for.
2016-05-20 00:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not right, you might get used to it...besides, what would you feel if he's asking this question on here...don't you feel cheated already?.....pleasure yourself...but don't look for another than your bf....if you can't help it, would it be better not to keep a permanent relationship? so you can have sex with anyone, anytime you want to...without hurting somebody in the end....think about it..
2006-06-17 22:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't wanna be mean but ur a bad girl! u said ur boyfriend is great and still your planning to cheat on him!! how could you?! if sex is all that you want break up with him and be a hooker, you can have sex and at the same time you earn money!!
just get something to occupy yourself with, don't cheat on him. that still going to hurt him.
2006-06-17 22:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Xxx☆pjay☆xxX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ok if he does some casual sex, then go ahead. Important thing to remember, he must never find out.
2006-06-17 22:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to hustler and get a BOB and be done with that. Dont cheat. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. I know its a female answer but its the truth. and since i dont know you i have not reason to lie to you.
Dont cheat. masterbate or get a BOB but dont cheat. It will hurt him and you.
2006-06-17 22:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casual sex is always fun but it almost always turns out to be more from on side or another
2006-06-17 22:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by j j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to have sex when he is gona but dont let him find out cuz that would a fight but it's ok if u love sex i love sex to and my man is in jail i kinda ****** his best friend his friend told him he dont care but i think it ok to have sex when ur man is gone.
2006-06-17 22:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋