This guy wont stop bugging me. he tells me he likes me, and always trys to hang out with me. He has a girlfriend already. and even if he was single, im still not interested. how do i get him to leave me alone, without being mean. i dont even wanna be friends with this guy, i just want him to leave me alone completely
2006-06-17 22:15:55 · 30 answers · asked by heather s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to be mean, cuz he has a history with being suicidal.
2006-06-17 22:29:47 · update #1
Tell Him that you masterbate 5 times a day!!! LMAO
2006-06-19 16:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by burrgump 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be really serious next time you speak to him.
1 Look him right to the eyes.
2 Imagine he is a child and you are a grown woman. Speak like a mother speak to a child and tell him that you really "hope" he "understand" there is not one "possibility" between you and him.
3. If he begins again, get more serious even and say: "STOP". Please stand up and now leave me alone.
That's the key. You must make him to stand up and GO. Don't run away from him... Never more! Sit down on a place and make him go. OK? Greetings! :-)
2006-06-18 05:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Fxstrrsfrtrss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to leave you alone. That there is no intrest there not even as friends. Just be blunt and straight forward with him. As mean as that may seem u need to get ur point across. So just tell him that there is nothing there and ask him to leave him alone and if this persists then tell him that u are gonna contact the police for harrassment
2006-06-18 05:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about him leaving you alone you would completly ignore him after telling him that you don't want anything at all to do with him if after this he speaks to you turn your back on him warn him that you do not want to embarss him but if he doesn't leave you alone you will make his life uncomfortable it's the only way other wise he may be in love with the chase
2006-06-18 05:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him to go away and leave you alone? If you have and he still wont leave you alone, go and get an order of protection, he is stalking you!
The order is easy to get, and usually free, if not then tell them you have no income.
I wouldn't even bother telling the girlfriend..Go straight to the court house and deal with it that way!!
Sometimes you have to be "mean"..Telling someone, :hey, I would prefer that you not bother me, I am not interested in you or your company and please do not bother me again".. is not mean!
2006-06-18 05:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so simple, Spray him with pepper spray :p na just kidding .. Just tell him the truth and make him understand that you arent interested and that you like some else. You gotta be straight forward and not Beat Around the Bush ;0
2006-06-18 05:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you have a girlfriend, and I'm totally not diggin this, I want you to leave me alone. Easy! It's a lot worse thing I believe to make him think he has a chance when you don't spurn away his advances. You kinda leading him on in a sense.
2006-06-18 05:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by jofolman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to look out for yourself. if he can't cope with your rejections, be cautious. i don't want to worry you but, things like this happen all the time where somebody just can't stand rejection. just make your point clear. hopefully in a situation where he can't harm you. if that doesn't work with telling him flat out, document everything that he does that could be illegal. for example, if he follows you around, touches you in any way, drives by your house constantly or whatever. get video tape, pictures, witnesses. i understand you don't want to hurt him but, he could hurt you bad. anything from emotional by trying to give you a guilt trip to physical abuse. get evidence of a crime if one has been committed and get help. contact law enforcement. there are many groups out there that can help you. it can also be kept very low key. even though you don't want to hurt him, more importantly, you don't want to hurt him. also, if he has a girlfriend, it is just wrong what he is doing. however, don't do anything that could get you in trouble like having somebody else injure him or anything like that. not only is it wrong, but, it is not worth it to get in trouble, especially for a guy like that. i hope you the best and be safe.
2006-06-18 05:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell him to leave you alone. If it's to the point where you're upset over it then forget about being nice and just tell him. If that doesn't work, tell his girlfriend.
2006-06-18 05:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh. Ive had TWO relationships where they threatened suicide if I left them. Thats not your problem, it's theirs. Best thing is to keep your distance and avoid him. Tell his girlfriend that you think he's getting too attached and maybe she will set him back in line. If you got a older brother that always helps cause I know I helped my sister get rid of some of her creepy high school dates before.
2006-06-18 05:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you one story:
Two ladies were talking about their husbands. One of them told that her husband looks on other women and chases them and I am worried. The other lady asked her not to worry. She told about her dog who chases the Scooters and cars. The dog chases them while they run but if they stop of any reason then suddenly my dog becomes quite as he do`snot know what to do now.
So you chase him instead, call him on wrong times, stop at the street and ask what he wants and like this.
hemsekai
2006-06-18 05:27:03 · answer #11 · answered by hemsekai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋