A guy that i like asked me to become his girlfriend(i confessed my feeling to him last year via sms) on Febuary this year. He asked me weather a long distance relationship could makes my academic result worse. After that, he asked me weather i'm confident enough to sustain a long distance relationship. I'm excited when i heard that, but i don't know how to answer him(cause i have never going through this before). I said it's hard to sustain and he said put on going steady on hold temporarily. Now, June has coming. We are just friends after that phone call. Last night, i sent him his birthday present, cause he's not in the town on the day of his birthdate.He's happy when he received the present. I feel regret cause i rejected his request. I want to tell him i want to be his girlfriend, but i scared that things'll turn outside down. Will he ever ask that question again? I think no. If we really become couple,'ll us match?He is a mechanic to be and me'll a university student to be.
2006-06-17 22:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by the milky way 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are school mates before. Same batch but not same class. We going for tution class together and Takwaendo Club. We never spoke before the text message that i first sent to him that content i do have feeling for him. We have been going out once three weeks ago(i asked him out). He said that he'll go for a movie with me, but how come no? He'll going back to the other towm tomorrow. Don't say that i'm stupid or whatsoever, cause i'll be hurt if you say that.
2006-06-17 22:18:54 · update #1
Be sure of what u want.Where u want the relationship to head.Long distance relationships are not that easy to sustain,especially when u are still studying.You/He may encounter many interesting people around .Relationships thrive on being togther and living with the person.Not imagining love and reading between lines.Does he mean anything serious or just wants a good time pass with u by the long distance romance?As ur acedemics go,it depends entirely on how u look and take things seriously.
Yes,he does like u,and may ask u again,it apeears so.
2006-06-17 22:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey am in a long distance relationship and its been 1 year and 7 months and were still goin strong.. am sure if i can do it u can as well!!! be patient and he'll ask u once more.. or even u can drop him some hints.. tell him how much u care about him..
**LIL MISS VIXION**
2006-06-17 22:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by LIL MISS VIXION 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like both of you like each other, you just have a habit of over-thinking things.
If he was really hurt by your rejection (if that's what it was) then he probably would have felt too embarrassed to keep in touch. Since he is still talking, it seems likely he's still carrying a bit of a torch for you.
Speak up! I suspect he'll be overjoyed to know you still think about him in that way.
2006-06-17 22:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must ask him this time whether he'll accept u as ur gf because as u rejected he thinks that ur n't interested in him or this relation so may be he 'll not ask. if u really wanna keep this relation then proffession doesnt matter. call n ask him to be ur boyfrnd thats the best way 2 know wot he wants.
2006-06-17 22:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by soma m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wonder and worry about it that much it just won't work out because you don't care enough about the relationship to put any effort into making one work with him at any kind of distance.
In short you are not in love with him and so go on to your life and let him go on to his/
2006-06-17 22:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should first find out more about him,he is far away from you and you couldn't understand anyone by talking on mobile or sending a present,have you guys met,if not first find out information,then may be you could become couples and if he is someone foul you should just chuck him out.
good luck
2006-06-17 22:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem super. I mean ur no longer great skinny, yet ur definatley on the thinner component of standard. i might by no ability seem at you and pass "seem there is that lady"! Ur loopy if u think of ur fat do no longer worry!
2016-12-08 10:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him before it's too late... tell him how you feel... and ask the question he asked you.... good luck.... P/O
2006-06-17 22:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2006-06-17 22:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him
2006-06-17 22:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by pale rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋