do I masturbate too much? is it bad for me?

Question

I jack off about 6 times a day and sometimes it still is'nt enough, is this a problem? im not sure

Answer 1

You can do it as much as you want, nothing will happen to you. You should probably stop if it starts hurting or something.

Answer 2

At twice a day, you masturbate more than most people do. On the other hand, you seem to be a young man, and plenty of young men masturbate daily or more. As long as you can still function in the world, at school, on your job, with family and friends, there's nothing wrong with your frequency of masturbation. The red flag is masturbating instead of taking care of life's business that needs tending.

Your masturbation has nothing to do with your sexuality later in life -- except that you'll probably want to keep masturbating even if you're in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with this. The vast majority of people who are coupled continue to masturbate, perhaps not as frequently as they did when they were single, but they still do it. Masturbation and partner sex are both sexual, but they fill different needs. Masturbation is about communing with yourself, and partner sex is about communing with someone else.

Masturbation won't cause undo fatigue. Sex is not strenuous. It won't ruin your memory, shrink your penis, grow hair on your palms, and really have any effect on you -- except some pleasure while doing it and some feelings of relaxation afterward.

As for premature ejaculation, you come too soon if you come before you want to. There is no "right length of time" to last before ejaculating. You might be interested to know that to learn ejaculatory control, sex therapists typically recommend --guess what -- masturbation. Men masturbate to practice their control and to identify what it feels like to approach their point of no return when ejaculation feels inevitable. So if you want to start learning control, practice while you masturbate: Approach your point of no return, then stimulate yourself less so you back away from it, then approach and back off repeatedly. That should help you learn control.

I hope this answers your questions.



MatthewHPNC
Sex Doctor

Answer 3

When I was younger, my sex drive was off the hook but now that I am older, I have been able to calm down.

I used to masturbate quite frequently as well - sometimes because I could not sleep without masturbating - or I was upset or worried about something/s so I used masturbating to help me to calm down.

If you feel that masturbating is a problem for you, maybe you can find a gudinace counselor or someone to talk to and they can help you to try to calm down a bit.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

well, It is completely perfect to masturbate everyday.. but remember something; try to find something else to do during the day that takes ur energy off.. and makes u satisfied.. I don't mean to give up masturbating, no because ur body needs it. But so many masturbations per day might affect ur sexual ability... try to find a girlfriend to help u, have sex with her as much as u want.. it is healthier and more normal. Still, remember masturbation is normal but not sooo many times per day.

Answer 5

Iv'e only met one young man who told me he did masterbate 5 or 6 times a day,there is no doubt you have alot of time on your hands.
For me it was quite less,but for all of us who even admit doing it at all there are many reasons,but i think the most important one is it is healthy for you,by doing it you actually remove dead and unheathy sperm from your body,so when the time comes,sorta say and your married and want to have kids,you'll have alot of fresh young mr. squiggleys to do the job.speaking of jobs that might slow you down abit.

Answer 6

That depends on how old you are.. if you're under 21 maybe..as your hormones are out of control..

However, if you're doing this daily... you have an obsessive compulsive disorder, and you may wnat to consult a physician.

Answer 7

I know what the problem is!...You need a real women then you wont need to jack off and problem solved!

Answer 8

masturbation is normal and some people will do it more than others. If you wanna decrease this get out into the world more, and have sex!

Answer 9

its better to keep your self clean and jack uo than to let dirty jack u off u know what I mean is that enough quota

Answer 10

Damn bro, you must be shootin blanks by the end of the day, or either your still a young pup.

Answer 11

Nothing wrong with masturbation itself. If you are not hurting yourself, and can enjoy it, or not harm anyone? Why doubt it much?