When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:45:07
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answered by Wolfie 7
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there are many different stages of love and lust. u can be in love with somebody who has no interest in u but u can't actually love them unless they love u back. that is a mutual thing. next, u have infatuation. that is where u would do anything to be with that person, whether u know they don't want u or not. now, we move on to the stages that are problems. some people become so selfish that they become stalkers or actually physically or otherwise try to cause their person of interest to be harmed. that is where harassment comes into play and, that is just wrong. lust would probably fall under infatuation or the other stages, which are not good. some people have friends with benefits and they know that that is just for gratification. when a person in that situation becomes emotionally interested and the other person knows it is just for pleasure, that is lust.u just really need to know what u want from that person and what they want in a significant other. two people also have to have compatability. not much more to say. i hope that helps.
2006-06-17 21:48:33
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answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3
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Lust is in basic terms actual - you opt to have intercourse with this individual, grope this individual. All physique stuff. Love is emotional - sure, there are factors of lust in love yet for the main section it truly is desirous to be with that individual, communicate with that individual, cuddle, and to stay with them constantly. tl;dr Lust leaves once you income some pounds, love continues to be and asks in case you like cake.
2016-10-31 02:02:29
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answered by Anonymous
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most people fall in lust not love,love is not anger, or jealously its trust , Faith and respect for the others individual rights we do not own them ,we have the individual right to sleep with whom ever we want and if is true love out of devotion we will never sleep with another
2006-06-17 21:52:57
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answered by David G 1
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love is divine love happens naturally u can love a person when u respect him or her & lust u can have with any one sbeautiful.
2006-06-17 22:20:09
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answered by krrish 2
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love is thought of waist above and lust waist below... hah hah
2006-06-17 21:40:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Love is an inigma.
2006-06-17 21:34:18
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answered by Anonymous
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there is no such thing as love
2006-06-17 21:37:55
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answered by Anonymous
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orgasm
2006-06-17 21:36:07
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answered by gampo3 1
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