how do you get a boyfriend?

Answer 1

1) KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.
This is really important, because once you get a boyfriend you actually have to spend time with him! That can be a huge drag if he doesn't have the right qualities to make you happy. Make a list of qualities that your ideal boyfriend should have, such as intelligence, looks, sense of humor, a passion for music, or respect for other people's feelings.

2) BE READY TO LOVE A NEW GUY.
Do a self-check and make sure you are over old hurts and disappoinments in love. You're ready for a new relationship if you can put aside any grudges or crushes on old boyfriends, so you're ready to move on.

3) PUT YOUR BEST SELF FORWARD.
Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying negative qualities. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally. For example, if you don't like your flat chest but your thighs are nice and muscular, show off your best assets in cute minis that focus attention on legs. Another example: if you're not an Einstein at math but you are a caring type of person, go out of your way to be helpful to others and let that compassion shine.

4) HAVE A LIFE OF YOUR OWN.
Boys can sense when a girl is desperate for a boyfriend, and it makes them run in the other direction. Bottom line: boys want to hook up with girls who seem like they don't need a boyfriend to have a good time. If you appear to be happy, fun to be around and confident in yourself, guys will take a second look at you. Yes, boys like good looking girls, but beauty only gets you so far. Most boys with any dating experience know that it's better to date a fun and interesting regular chick, than a boring beauty queen.

5) TAKE A SECOND LOOK.
Consider any unattached guys at your school or work, or even the sons of your parents' friends. Maybe you think you're already considered everyone, but think again and really keep your mind open about guys you already know. Do any of them have the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?

6) GET INVOLVED.
One of the best ways to meet new guys - and to get to know them better - is to get involved in school activities. Find out what's offered at your school, such as clubs, teams, sports and other after-school activities. Join activities that you enjoy or that you are sincerely interested in, so you meet people with similar interests. From soccer to drama to yearbook, most schools offer many opportunities for teens to get involved. This can be an amazing way to meet new guys, expand your horizons and widen your circle of friends at the same time.

7) WHEN YOU'RE INTERESTED, SEND A MESSAGE.
If you have your eye on a certain guy, let mutual friends know about your interest in him. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell him about your crush.

8) FLIRT.
Flirting really is a girl's best friend. Once you've set your sights on a cutie, take things to the next step by learning to attract his attention with flirting. This can help you become friendly with him, and you can learn to send the subtle signal that you're interested in becoming more than just friends.

9) TRY THE DIRECT APPROACH.
For bold girls, sometimes the direct approach applies. This doesn't mean walking up to your crush and saying "I like you, wanna go out?" which is highly risky and could backfire. Instead, be bold in the right setting, such as asking your crush to dance to a slow song at the school dance, or telling him you had a dream that you two were a couple and it was soooo sweet. His reaction will let you know if he's interested!

10) KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN.
Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open wherever you are and learn to look beneath the surface of guys. Remember, the right guy for you is somewhere out there, and he's looking for you too!

Answer 2

an internet boyfriend: dating sites of course. but you haave to watch out for fakers. so i guess its safer to be with an 'as-seen-as-told' boyfriend . . you know, a real guy . .

boyfriend next door (around the town): just be youself, and be open to opinions and such. dont act like someone your not, it'll just make it harder to keep them staying.

being yourself could be the best decision to ever make when you want to have a boyfriend.

Answer 3

i mean on the real, just be yourself, dont lie, dont tell him u like him then u diss him for someone else, if u like someone stick to him, i mean jus main tha thing is be true to urself n dont rush him into anything like a relationship on tha first day u met that makes a guy feel unconfortable, trust me i know, its good to be jealous but not too jealous thas all i can say.

Answer 4

i would say just be yourself and dont be anything they want u to be like me personaly i like a girl who has a good sence of hummer one that speaks from her mind and not just say what u think they want to hear and u got to be fun to hang around and not sit there like a log if theres a boy u like and u think he likes u should go for the chance to speak to him before another girl talks to him

Answer 5

try with everybody who responds to your question and finally you will as many boy friends as you can. select one the best whom you like much. others if you wish continue as secondary or leave them.

Answer 6

E-mail me lol only if your over 18

Answer 7

just giv meh ur id lol