welll me and my bf have a very smooth relationshi his so sweet and caring and he accept me even if i already has a baby.. he cares for my baby to, he fights for me from his family and friends cos hey judged me of having a baby. he comes to my hows and meet my family. them after 2 mons and 3 weeks he sudden changed one day he told me "y did i only meet you now
i never tot b4 that i cant do my responsibilities to u" i loved u so much but i think i need to have a break i want to rest 4 awhile but dont worry ill come back".. i loved him so much and i dont wanna loose him wat can i do.. after days i go after him he come back to me but he sed i shouldnt call him "pah" anymore and he sed that if i have a bf i shud thrust him and never give doubt.. then a he sed he really need a break he wants to rest.. when i ask him if he still love me he sed "i dont know" then i didnt replyd to him anymore
wat shal i do do i have to come after him agen or wait for him?
2006-06-17 21:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by jchelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him why!
2006-06-17 21:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by you. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't count on him coming back, because there's ntohing worse than getting your hopes shattered. I just let go of someone I loved dearly, and he didn't even put up a fight for me. That hurt. All I can recommend is that you give him some time to think about things. Don't pressure him into coming back, nor a decidion, because if you do, it'll make him feel as though he's locked in a airless room with no ventilation.. which isn't the kind of feeling you'll want him to have. If you really love him, you'll wait. However, don't give him the impression that he can put you on hold anytime he wants, and you'll just welcome him back into your life with open arms. Make sure that he proves to you that he's made the right decision, because there's nothing more heartbreaking than going through a problem like this twice. If you do, you start doubting yourself, thinking: what's wrong with me? Why did he come back, and then decide to leave again? What did I do to push him away.. good luck sweetheart xx
2006-06-18 04:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up hope. If he said he'd come back, he might. He probably did it out of the pressure of what his family and friends' were telling him. But don't wait for him forever, if at all. If he said it's over, it's his loss. He wasn't the 'one' if he let you go so easy, so try hard not to wait for him to come around again. What might be best is to just move on. If he wasn't the 'one' , then theres still the right person out there for you. Just don't give up.... ever. He's out there and if you give up you'll never find him.
I don't know the feelings behind all of this because i dont know what you 2 went through as a couple. i know it's hard, much harder than i can imagine, but youre strong. If you alreay have a child and you are taking care of him/her, with or without a bf, you can cope with almost anything. it sounds corny, but follow your heart. only you can decide what to do, and i hope you decide well. my only real advice is not to let anyone fool you and dont give your trust and heart fully away, because when you give them everything, they leave you taking it all. be careful. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-18 04:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man says he needs a break, it never helps to go after him. If it's real, he will come back to you. In the meantime take care of yourself and your child and hold your head up, and build a happy life. You are worthy of real love and if this man isn't the one, you will find your true love one day. Just remember, it will not help if you go after him. Don't call or write him. It will not bring him back.
2006-06-18 04:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by matineeidol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say because I don't know either of you personally, but it sounds like he just wants some space for now. Leave him alone for a while. If he loves you, he'll come back.
2006-06-18 04:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him, if u love someone that much u wait for them no matter if they go out and find another person to love, they'll miss the way u loved and cared for him
2006-06-18 04:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to just move on and if he really loves you he will come for you other than that move on and enjoy yourself.
2006-06-18 04:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Erica j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. go through the pain for a while hoping yr friends are close and understanding.
2006-06-18 04:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by hot gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋