I ask this because i heard that it has many negative sides and also it seems more like LUST than love, what you think?
2006-06-17 20:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by Lassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anal sex can be very pleasurable to both parties if it is done right, and it can be done in a very gentle and stimulating way too...good way to spruce up a dull sex life, and also very intimate, i believe...you can have regular sex that is more distastefull than that fairly easily. and it is also ok to have lust in a love based relationship, i have a deep love for my husband, but thier are times when that deep burning inside you is solely lust (sex based, not love) its where the wild side comes out...for more reserved people it could be as simple as talking during sex (if its not common for you)ect...
2006-06-17 20:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both agree with it then why not? You're right, there are negatives, but that is what you have to think about when you decide if you agree or not. Also, isn't all sex from lust? I think it's the lustful side of love. Does that make sense?
2006-06-17 20:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kalika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOULD have? No.
CAN have? Yes.
Ultimately, you should only have any kind of sex when you are in a loving, monogamous relationship where there is trust. And that includes anal sex, oral sex, just whatever kind.
What makes you think other kinds of sex CAN'T be just lust either?
2006-06-17 20:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were the female giving in to his selfish desires, despite the feeling that you think you would be opposed to the idea.
Not Good.
If you were the male pressuring your female partner to give it a try if she felt uncomfortable with the thought.
Not Good.
If you both took the open minded approach and MUTUALLY decided to give it a try to see if it was something enjoyable to both of you.
Have Fun
If either of you disliked the experience and pressured the other into it again.
Not Good.
If you are 2 gay males.. No Response :)
2006-06-17 21:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by lost_but_not_hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something that a loving relationship should have. If both people involved are comfortable with it and want to do so then go for it but it's not some kind of requirement or something.
2006-06-17 20:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I think of a man and woman making love I don't think of anal sex , I don't care for it at all actually, yet i have gone thu with it on occasion for my husband who seems to like it , since I don't like it but do it for him and only have ever done it for him that's motivated by something cause I'm sure not getting much out of it ,except seeing him happy .and the feeling of having to pooh ....
2006-06-17 20:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it has many negative sides...That's an exit only back there...Now if a girl has been $hit on by a guy...You know...Hurt her in any way...Why would she wanna be in love and get f'ed up the @ss in another way that is worse on her?...
2006-06-17 21:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by *Panda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loving relationship is a truely honest relationship in which ideally you can both feel free to express your wants and dislikes and respect each others' fantasies if BOTH are willing participants.
2006-06-17 21:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by abearsfan77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels good do it. some do and some don't like it. besides if ur in a relationship and love each other, there is nothing wrong with some lusting.
2006-06-17 20:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by pale rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's disgusting and it's lust.
Loving relationships shouldn't have sex of any kind unless it's a husband/wife relationship. And then it's no one's buisness except the husband and wife so they can do what they want nomatter how gross it is.
2006-06-17 20:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Z, unnecessary letter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋