my little brother and i never get along. i have 3 kids and he never sees them or he will call my oldest son and promise to get him and never shows up. well our grandmother passed away and yesterday after the layout my brother and i argued. first off he just me this random girl off the internet and brought her to our familys funeral and then he makes fun of me for having 3 kids and then calls me a c*nt....today at the funeral he is outside talking to my boyfriend talking about me and what a loser i am. what should i do? i am almost to the point that i am gng to kick his *** or just be done with him permenately..i hate to say it but i dnt take this from anyone and i am nt gng to take it from him either. i dnt believe i should have to!
2006-06-17 20:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your brother sounds like a loser. Nobody says that you have to like him, or even tolerate him. Let him know that you are tired of his bullshit and you don't want him contacting you or your children until he gets his life in order, and if that never happens, it is fine by you. Your kids don't deserve that.
2006-06-17 20:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you both need to grow up and be mature adults. It is very sad that the two of you don't get along, but if this is the way you both act when you are around each other than I think you should stay away from one another. Neither one of you are setting a very good example for your children on how to be a loving sister or brother. You can't change your brother, but you can keep your distance from him until he decides to be the kind of brother you need and the kind of uncle your children deserve.
2006-06-18 04:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you able to sleep at night. You have 3 kids to worry about not a brother that don't have any sense. You can Love your brother without liking him. I have one that no matter what I love him. But for a while, I couldn't stand him! He has gotten better over the past several years thank goodness. But do yourself a favor don't loose sleep over something out of your control. Good luck
2006-06-18 03:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by tatgirl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to him n jus blurt out watever u thnk bout him.b4 he has time 2 respond get out of the place n never contact him again.or he vil thnk he can get away vit nethin.his behavior may b due to jealousy.thnk if sumthin u or yr parents or ne1 4 tat matter did or said sumthin tat wud hv made him jealous of u.if u find sumthin try 2 tak 2 him bout it.u can also make him go 4 sum theraphy session 4 such behavior.if nothin works out jus quit on him.
2006-06-18 03:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Amy Watson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect anything from him or invite him over until he matures and maybe even begins his own family. For what ever reason he seems maybe envious of what you do have.
2006-06-18 03:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Donna C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother and i were the same way before we each started our own families, now we get along just fine, I'd say just cut all ties with your brother and wait for him to contact you!
2006-06-18 03:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand on your own laurels.
2006-06-18 03:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋