I was very young when my parent's got a divorce, 2 i believe. When my dad left he moved to Alaska but still keeps in touch, he comes down whenever he can, and we talk to eachother on the phone sometimes as well. So we've still been in touch for all these years. Well while my dad was in Alaska my mother married another man, soon to be my Step-father. We've become good friends, like brother and sister, although we have our days over all we get along pretty well. My question is, when i get married, who do i choose to walk me down the isle? I don't want to hurt either of them, but i want to have a reason why i choose one over the other...
2006-06-17 19:51:37 · 11 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why do you have to choose? It wouldn't be the first time someone did something unconventional at their wedding. I think you should have one on either side. What a special girl, 2 daddies who love her so much.
2006-06-17 19:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by LeAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't choose between the two of them why don't you have both of them walk you down the isle. I have heard of girls doing this in this sort of case before. If you like and get along with your step-father and you do want your father walking you down the isle I would say have both of them and that way you dont hurt either one and you will have the both of them walking you down the isle.
2006-06-18 02:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a persona; decision but I would go with your biological father. Step parents are not the same as parents and the other man is not even that to you yet. Either way everyone should understand that your wedding is your day and whatever happens should be to make you happy!
You could also walk with both of them, one on each side!
2006-06-18 02:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by happypanda03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to choose one or the other. You should just have the both of them walk you down the isle. If you love the both as your father you shouldn't have to choose.
2006-06-18 02:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by prettyei666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice I can give you is choose the one your closest with and who's been there for you the most as a father. I just feel that the one who's been an actual father to you should be the one that should walk you down the aisle.
2006-06-18 02:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u can have a maid and matron of honor why not be escorted by both men who love u? u make ur wedding special and unique. I never walked down the aisle with that stupid here comes the bride march..i chose a differnet song. It's UR wedding...it is UR special day...so if u want both men to walk u..do it...besides when it's different ppl remember it better!!!
2006-06-18 02:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should choose your real father. Eventhow he is far you guys still keep in touch & afterall he is your father. Im sure he will be totally honored & your stepdad will totally understand. But ultametly.... go with your heart & only you know how the relationships between you & them are!! Good Luck!!!
2006-06-18 02:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by swtnsxygrlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister wanted both her father and my father (her step dad) to walk her down the isle. She was closer to my dad, but did not want to hurt her dad's feeling. When she asked my dad he was fine with it, he wanted to walk her down the isle, she was his baby girl! When she asked her father he refused to walk her down if my dad was there too, so she walked down the isle alone. She wishes she had the courage to just have my dad walk her down, but she did not want anyone to feel ill towards her by thinking she CHOSE to disclude her own father.
Go with your heart, walk with them both if that is what you want!
2006-06-18 03:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by sumnerrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would choose your real father because its a dad thing. because fathers are supposed to be the gaurdians of their daughters and when the daughter gets married he is passing the job on to her husband. even though women dont always need gaurdians. and i'm sure your step-father would understand you choosing your dad. and i thunk because you dont get to see your dad veery often you should give him this major role in a part of your life because your stepfather got to be in your life so much more. if that make sense.
2006-06-18 03:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Tate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad and ask him if he would be offended if you had him and you step-dad walk you down together. If so, then ask him if he'd do it. The father should be first. If he get offended, then your step-dad should be the one to do it. If they both get offended, ask your mom to do it!!!
2006-06-18 02:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by americanhousewife2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋