Im in a long distance relationship, and i met another guy who lives closer... I want to be with both. Would u consider this ok?
2006-06-17 18:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. but if you dont mind losing both at the end of the day, and risk damaging your reputation, u can. and hey, its better to pick one. dont mess with their feelings, especially if u're planning not to tell them about the other. it'd suck when they find out. not to mention all the guilt trips you'd be taking. it sucks in the long run. trust me. PICK ONE and be happy!
2006-06-17 19:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in an EXCLUSIVE relationship and you date another guy that's cheating. But if you two are dating casually and live long distance, then it's ok. If at any point in time exclusivity was made clear you're doing something wrong. Break it off with the long distance guy because it's clear you're not into him that much anyway. Let the guy who lives closer to you show you a good time.
2006-06-17 19:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa Whoa Whoa! no longer to be insulting yet those first solutions are loopy! A) you're not any more a whore. b) in case you and the first guy have not set a dedication then you absolutely don't have any reason to decline to this different guy. adult men ( and women) desire to step up and be honest if he needs you to this element in reality him he must have stated so. that's necessary that you manage your self like a worthwhile merchandise. you do not watch for a guy. you do not sit down round pining away for a guy who has no longer committed to you. it is your proper to this element different individuals until eventually both of you positioned a dedication. and also you do not desire to inform him. yet in case you do, you do not desire to sense in charge. in truth telling him or him sorting out will be a catalyst to him "sacking up" and asking that you may be his female friend. bypass out, have exciting and seem warm. For God's sake you're 19!
2016-10-14 06:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean casual dating or do you mean cheating? Assume that the dating is monogamous unless you have actually told your 'partner' that you want to date other people too. He may not like it but at least let him make that decision to continue with you or not ok?
2006-06-17 18:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that "dating" both men is acceptable to see which guy you want to have the potential relationship with. When things start to get serious with one of them, it's THEN that you need to tell the other one "goodbye!" and "hello!" to Mr. (hopefully) Right!
Good luck!
2006-06-17 18:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to chose 1, but if other guy treat u like this how you will feel? consider your feeling, who you 1.
2006-06-17 18:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! one at a time!
2006-06-17 18:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by dddddddddddd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say you're in a relationship so right there seeing anyone outside the relationship is cheating.
2006-06-17 18:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you need to choose one or the other because in the end theyll find out and youll end up losing both of them.
2006-06-17 18:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by draxxus89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask each of the guys this question.
2006-06-17 18:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by mcskwayrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋