we recently broke up...casue i wanted this..he was much in love with me..then i wanted to be again with him but he told me that this breaking up killed all his feelings for me..despite this we are still together..i still love him...what to do to make him fall in love again. Lately he refused sex cause he wanted to watch match..and i was shocked cause we already started our sexual life..which he cliamed he really loved..:-( i am really depressed help me..please!
2006-06-17 18:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by oliwia1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loved you and you broke up with him, you probably broke his heart and that's what killed the feelings. He probably still despises you for this, and probably wants to love you again but resents you for hurting him. If you stop the effort and lay off, he might start the effort. Lay off and relax, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be and it's just a waste of time, energy and emotion to try. If it doesn't work, move on, but in the meantime, just relax and try not to worry about it, if he wants to, he'll try.
2006-06-17 18:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello Olivia!
Sorry to hear about your breakup. It is NEVER easy, for any of us.
Seems that life is this way. People that we love, break up, leave us. But life indeed goes on. You will find someone else, better than what you had. Funny thing about finding someone else, they show up when you are NOT looking for another guy. That is how I found my wife. I had a terrible break up with a girl I loved deeply. 3 months later, I meet my wife and it was love-at-first-sight. I know this sounds corny, but we have been married for 32 years.
2006-06-18 01:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You played your trump card and now have little left in your hand. You gave in pretty cheap, didn't you?
Remember, infatuation is what begins the relationship. Infatuation can run as long as two years--or as short as two seconds. Love takes a while to build, or rebuild as may be the case here. It will take time to tell, so be patient.
2006-06-18 01:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt mean he doesnt love you anymore. But since you broke up it really hurt him and he probably cant just love you again right away. If he loved you before that means he still loves you it will just take time for him to fall for you again
2006-06-18 01:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by yakj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My adivise to you is this....
You cant make anybody fall back in love with you just have to give it time. If it don't work out maybe it is for the best. That does not mean he doesn't love you. He well always love you for who you are, but trying to forse to dont make it right. Trust me just let it take time
2006-06-18 01:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still does love you but by just refusing sex at that one time doesnt mean anything. he probable really wanted to watch the game. Just give him time and see what happens
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-18 01:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by sleepless07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I don't know of any dude refusing Sex to watch T.V that's Crazy
2006-06-18 01:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only messing with your mind to get you obedient.
the match thing just shows how much he likes sport, it's not where the problem is.
2006-06-18 01:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refused to have sex with u it means he IS idiot!
2006-06-18 02:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by ONE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! it probably means he still a virgin or he is cheating on you
2006-06-18 01:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Felecia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋