I was recently at a party with my BF and it turned out the "ex who broke his heart" was there. At this party they do this thing where they make people dance together and the girl who was throwin it I guess thought it was cute that she mad my BF and his ex dance together so they did. Now maybe I'm paranoid but I couldn;t help but feel as if all he wanted to do was be with her and be by her. Not once while he danced with her or after did he look my why, show signs of affection. And then once they stopped dancing he didn't sit next to her but by her. For those 2 hours he sat by me ONCE at a party that I knew only TWO people at and he knew everyone, and that one time I think it was because she was sitting next to me! I feel like I lookd so DUMB and STUPID! SO now I'm mad..naturally but I admit I'm being childish and I'm not telling him why, becuz all he's going to say is "Your paranoid, you don't know wat your talking about, I love you not her" BLEH what do i do??? *sigh*
2006-06-17
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relax, next time don't go to parties anymore. but it was wrong to leave you hanging there alone. he should right next to you when he is sitting next to his ex.
2006-06-17 18:03:40
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answered by ? 4
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Do you have an ex? I'd say get him back! Do the same to him and when he questions you about it tell him "Your paranoid, you don't know what your talking about, I love you not HIM." That should teach him a lesson! ;)
Honestly, I think you should follow your intuition, it is more than likely to be accurate.. But be careful, don't act on your impulse, thats how we "regret"..wait this out a little bit, give it some thought and than you'll know what to do whether it'd be to leave him or stay with him..
2006-06-17 18:06:06
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answered by Anonymous
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i does not carry her in charge for what took place with you ex bf. supply her the income of the doubt except she supplies you reason to no longer have confidence her. I propose i does not be telling each and every thing and something yet so some distance as you could tell she went in the process the comparable ingredient and you men ought to probable boost an truly great friendship with the aid of fact of it. Your ex is the asshole and you ought to not blame her for what took place. Like I mentioned, except she supplies you a reason to be disenchanted or mad at her... be acquaintances!
2016-10-31 01:54:26
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answered by seelye 4
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Yeah I think he still oves his ex. If she broke his heart it will take a long time for him to get over it. Either you can accept that he loves someone else and put up with it or you can break up with him. I personally wouldn't want to stay in a relationship where my guy had feelings for someone else.
2006-06-17 17:59:47
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answered by mommysrock 4
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I think I would be hurt by this too. Tell him how you felt that night after things have calmed down a little. I would worry if he keeps talking about her way after attending the party.
2006-06-17 17:59:14
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answered by Jess 1
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Dump him. Why worry all the time about something you can't control. If he wants to be with her again his not going to tell you unless he knows for sure she wants to get back with him.If I felt I was second best I'd hit the road and let hin figure it out on his on.
2006-06-17 18:36:57
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answered by Countrygirl 5
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for one he shouldnt be dancing with any other girl other than you and i wouldnt be in a relationship with a guy that he didnt feel the same way about me that i did about him so i would tell him how it made you feel and he shows no feeling or remorse find you some one that loves you the way he loves her
2006-06-17 18:05:24
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answered by aleym 2
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i know how you feel ive been through this telll him how you feel and see waht he says if he gives u a stupid answer n u still dont believe him then dump him if he loved u then he would have sat by u not by ur ex
2006-06-17 18:02:33
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answered by coolgirl988765 1
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maybe. give it time, if he acts differently for a period of time, then doubt and ask again. For now, observe and use your senses.
2006-06-17 18:07:20
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answered by Jivan S 3
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chill out
2006-06-17 17:59:08
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answered by sisco1409 1
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