how would u deal with your breaking heart how would u get over your lover and start all over how would deal with the pain in your heart i how u stop thanking about your lover and missing him very day how would try to have fun without thanking of him how can i have fun without thanking of him how can
2006-06-17 17:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your a mess right now. What you need is TIME to heal your emotional wounds. If you are certain it is over (that is, if he has made that clear to you,) then I suggest you try to fall out of love with him. Think of his flaws and maginify them in your mind. Pick up a book called how to fall out of love.
Those are just a couple of suggestions. Good luck.
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2006-06-17 17:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girlfriend, life is too short for you to put this much misery into one man. Men is like a bus one comes every 5 minutes so catch one. You have to say to yourself, let it go and if it was meant to be it'll come back, love that is and it doesn't mean that you wait in misery for it to happen.Your own happiness first and foremost should be the most important thing in your life and if you are choosing to give that up for someone that doesn't love you enough to be with you then you need more help then yahoo answers. You deal with this by moving on and moving forward and when you do it will ease the pain in your heart and eventually go away completely and you will stop thinking about him because you will be enjoying life and maybe even new found love. You may end up missing out on your true love by waisting your time wanting to be with someone that obviously didn't appreciate you or you would still be together. So read this and read it good, Today is the first day of the rest of your life and you intend on making it count.
2006-06-18 01:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by reeseusps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP dwelling on HIM!
YOU are the person you should be thinking of now.
You'll NEVER get over him at the rate you're going.
Get outside into the fresh air. Get rid of those cobwebs in your head. Go for a walk. Go for a bike ride. Go to the park and take a ride on a swing. Meet some new people. Talk to a stranger.
S - M - I - L - E.........There's a bright new world at your front door!
2006-06-18 01:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Discipline your thoughts. Remind yourself, thinking about that person only prolongs your pain. Besides, what value does thinking about that person bring? Would thinking about that person change your current situation?
To tell yah honestly, after sometime you'd accept things and you might still think abou this person sometimes but will get over him when you fall for another guy sometime in the future.
Don't make your life too dramatic.
2006-06-18 01:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what I was asking three months ago. But suddenly one day, I realized I wasn't in love with that person anymore. I still loved her, but I could move on, I wasn't IN love. Time was the only thing that did it for me, not dates (I rebounded a bit) or ignoring the opposite sex completely or just trying to completely forget her. You just gotta wait it out, and even though it's hell if you really loved them, it'll end.
2006-06-18 00:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. and , are usefull to use when you write. Just a tip ;-)
Oh, and alos big letter in the begginning of a sentence.
And I guess you are using Opera like me as you obviously haven't run spellcheck. Let us all hope it will work in the next version of Opera.
2006-06-23 12:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shaqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold you head up and start the day afresh,its over and you cant change that,each day it will hurt a little less and althought you might allways remember him dont think of the hurt but of the love you had and the happy times
2006-06-18 01:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change you thinking. Get involved with some activities that you like. People will come and go in your life, all you really have is you.
2006-06-18 00:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its is tooo difficult to forget a person u have been deeply in love wid without thinking about him/her is almost difficult even for myself if i had been in place of u...but it sometimes becomes necessary to do so .........just try to be wid ur friends and talk each and every thing u feel about anything and try to keep engagaed urself wid ny activity......it would surely help ya.....best luck.
2006-06-18 00:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by sonali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need time, second of all you need to do things that take your mind off of him... or even try hanging out with friends more! I always found that to help.
2006-06-18 00:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋