i always say "nothing", but problem is, something is bothering me, deep down inside. he's been divorced for 2 yrs, but his ex wife is causing problems, and im afraid he's going to leave me for her. he says he'll never go back to her, so i dont want to bring this up and bother him, but its causing me to have anxiety constantly.
any advice ?
thanks so much!
2006-06-17 17:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are "deep down " feeling like this..It probably is true. Especially if they have kids together.
You need to tell him how you feel..although he will deny it whether it's happening or not.
2006-06-17 17:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that the bf and the x have kids together?
Then there is the type of person that doesn't want to be with some one but doesn't want that person to be with anyone else.
Those are the only 2 reasons I can figure she would bother him.
What ever the reason you NEED to talk to him about her.
If he is feeling that your tense about something and you don't tell him his imagination could go wild. He could think your cheating or don't realy want to be with him.
Then you'll be forcing him into the arms of another woman, X or not.
Be honest and open.
If they have to keep in touch because of kids then you need to have him tell her to limit the bothering to only child related things.
Good Luck!
2006-06-17 17:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think it is time for every girl on the face of this planet to WAKE UP! Believe it or not, guys are not idiots, in fact, we are just as perceptive as you when we really need to be. He KNOWS something is wrong, and you saying nothing is making him think you dont trust him. Be up front and honest with him, it's your only chance.
2006-06-17 17:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect him to read your mind! You have to talk to him about it if you ever want to stop feeling that way.
It sounds like there is something else on your mind too though, and you might want to figure out why you are so worried about his ex wife before you rehash that conversation again.
2006-06-17 17:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by pinkprincesstris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise to you is that u have only know this guy for 2 months maybe u dont know if he is tell the truth, but all I can say is just talk to him I had the same thing happen to me, and he took is wife back, because he loves her, and not matter he says he allways well
2006-06-17 17:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him whats bothing you and just go through and rationally explain the situation your in. if it's making you unhappy it will eventually ruin your relationship and neither of you will be happy.
2006-06-17 17:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u need to talk to a friend and try to get enough nerves 2 talk to him and if its really really really really really really really bad mayb try a theripist to help u gain his trust again
2006-06-17 17:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, tell him what you just told us. he might think the problem is on your end and start to distance himself.
2006-06-17 17:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i got some advice, stop lyin to him and tell him whats up, or you will lose him
2006-06-17 17:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!! He is cheating.
2006-06-17 17:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋