The problem as bad as I hate to admit it is that i take it extremely personal when I am rejected. I dont show any emotion but im mentally crushed and wont ask out another girl for a long time.
2006-06-17 17:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by tweeter12351 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection is a part of life pal. Get used to it. When it comes to girls and building up confidence, the more girls you try to ask out, the more experience you will have, and the less likely rejection will bother you. After all, who cares if you're rejected by 54 or 56 girls. Those two extra won't matter.
If the face to face rejection is what bothers you I suggest start chatting with girls online first.
there are plenty of web sites to do this like plentyoffish. Practice practice practice talking with as many girls on there as you can (email works too). If you hit it off with one of them, then ask for her phone number.
It's a numbers game, good luck and happy hunting.
m
2006-06-17 17:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same way, but I think now that if I am rejected, I would be fine. You will be with who you are supposed to be with and just take it as a sign, whether you believe or not...it's good for you mentally...you would know, right...degree in Psychology. P.S. The girl you are thinking about right now...call her cell. She's probably awake. (I have ESP) LOL!!!! :-)
2006-06-17 17:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you're going about it all wrong. asking for a girls number is like anything else...you have to practice. first, you have to understand that you can't have every girl you ask out. some are in relationships, some just got out of one and want to have fun, others are out on a "girls night out" and don't want you to bother them...what ever, you get the point. make yourself go out and pick up on 10 girls in a night and i bet you that one of them will give you her number. when i'm single, i'll take every opportunity i get to talk to a girl...and i'm talking about picking up on girls at a red light. i know, i know. sometimes i'll get rejected left and right and other times i'm getting a girl naked in a few hours after we met.
just make yourself go talk to them--it's like any other sport, you'll get better with practice. and, don't take it so personal when you get shut down. here's a trick...try to find a way to make them laugh upon approaching them. if you can make a girl smile, you're half way there. good luck
2006-06-17 17:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off you have to learn to deal with rejection because its just apart of life, i know its hard to be turned down but its natural. There is plenty of single women out there. Dont be mad or sad just dust yourself off and try again
2006-06-17 17:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the BEST WEBSITE and the MOST FUN ALL FREE
[HTTP://www.PLENTYOFFISH.COM]
Put up a profile and prepare to be amazed(I use it)
2006-06-17 17:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stan B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋