everytime a guy say he likes me or flirts with me or will say im pretty or some bull like that suddenly either they stop callin me or they would never ask me out...i dont understand if its something i do or say..i never appear needy at all and i never play those hard to get games either...im basically jus me...so why do they lose interest so quickly?
2006-06-17 17:19:07 · 13 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its simple, say you got a mp3 player 256 MB any kind, you used it for like a few months, then your mom got you a Ipod 20 GB. Don't you think you will lose interest in your old mp3 256 MB after you have tested and explored every function of it? To make things more simpler, once you have explored everything about this object or person, you will got bored of it because there is nothing new to it. like watching the same eposide of family guy every single day. its the same concept. Nothing last forever.
2006-06-17 17:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 5⤊ 6⤋
i think three weeks is a long time for a guy to try and engage a girl in conversation, especially if he didn't get a lot of feedback from you. so he definitely liked you, or at least how you look like. but if you don't talk to him, he can't get to know the real you and will just get bored. so, i guess he moved on, either because he got tired of trying, or thought you didn't like him enough to talk to him. you should try to be more confident and if you feel you can't just go out there and be the soul of the party.... start small... look people in the eye when they talk to you, smile, look interested, ask questions, laugh with them... this is all very easy to do, and doesn't require you thinking up some witty answers. good luck!
2016-03-15 08:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are physically beautiful but guys don't dig your personality. Girls that are too fast to get are boring. There's no challenge. Guys like some challenge.
2006-06-17 18:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LISTEN VERY CLOSELY...I have your answer..................................................
BE YOURSELF AND NOTHING ELSE!!!!
If the people you are trying for aren't interested, they most likely don't have a high enough i.q. to know what they're missing.
Take it from me, never change or bend your beliefs, appearance, etc. for anyone! I had to learn the hard way (nearly $10,000 and 2 heartbroken situations.)
Anyone who can't appreciate you for you isn't worth wasting your time or even your thoughts on.
Be patient, things will work out how there supposed to.
2006-06-17 17:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
We all naturally have intuition as to what's right for us, especially about romance-love. You need not take it too personally. You have your intuitive sense as well. Use it.
My advise is, be natural, don't play games. Afterall, *trust* is most important in any loving relationships.
2006-06-17 17:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say because they don't see the real value in you and that you're not a whxxe!
You Will find the person that you're seeking, but maybe not on the net?
Give this time and wait for the real deal!
2006-06-17 17:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
hun it is a part of life with those type of men they are called players. just out to get into your pants and the reason they dont ever call or ask you out is because you are special you arent easy so they have no need for you they only want one thing
you are doing great be yourself and show you arent a fluzzy
very proud of you not many like you around stay yourself stay that way
2006-06-17 17:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by silvereagle1125 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well how do you act towards them? Maybe if you like the guy you could show interest in him too. Maybe they dont think youre interested so they baxk off. You should try flirting back if you like them.
2006-06-17 17:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
that's your problem. play some hard to get, so you don't take the fun out of dating. make him wonder if you like him and so on. but don't go to that extreme either cuz he'll think you don't like him.
2006-06-17 17:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
cause they made a mistake by saying they love you so they ran for they lives
2006-06-17 17:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋