how do i know if the girl likes me enough i should kiss her?

Question

when is the right time place and how well should you know someone before you kiss them on the lips?

Answer 1

you should know whether they:

1) have AIDS
2) have the clap
3) have syphallis
4) have chlymidia
5) have herpes simplex 10
6) have herpes complex 12
7) have hepatitis
8) have sore on their genitals
9) have crabs

Answer 2

Find out if she likes you and how much from someone else first. That gets rid of nerves, at least. Then, if after hanging out a bit and getting to know her, decide whether you'd like to be exclusive. Kissing usually means exclusivity...well, at least that's the way it should be. Don't rush in to anything and don't 'charm' or seduce her just to make out. There are enough disrespectful guys out there, and if she's a though girl, she won't play your games.

Answer 3

depends on the girl if shes more aggressive at the same time shy. she will give you clues that she likes you in the way of kissing and making out.
if shes more of a shy kind of girl its harder to read. most of the shy types like to wait a little bit longer and get to know the guy. however in either case if you dont give her and sort of kiss meaning on the lips, cheek, or even forehead. you wont get another date.
just be yourself and go with the flow. get to know her and you can decide.

Answer 4

I can tell you from experience that that's a tough question to answer. And it doesn't get any easier as you get older, except with some experience you can feel more aware of such issues and maybe time your initial kiss better. But let me tell you that oftentimes the type or intensity of kiss you share with a girl helps get the initial kiss "over with". Obviously a "lighter kiss" as opposed to a "all-lips-open-and-tongue-flailing-about" kiss is a better way to begin, and is more appropo in more situations. The latter "all-lips-open-and-tongue-flailing-about" kiss is more like an "attack" and I might suggest she be in as much a mood as you are. If she seems "ripe-and-ready" for such a passionate kiss on the first kiss, might I recommend you follow the recommendations of your first responder above. She's dangerous for your health maybe. But oftentimes a kiss on her cheek will be a good "lead-in" for her to understand that you have romantic or sexual affections for her. You still have to proceed kindly and respectfully, unless she responds passionately, and then again, too much too soon on her part might be a good caution flag for you to return to your first responder's recommendations. But her reaction will tell you a lot if you maintain a focus on her communications to you. If you "listen" to her verbal and nonverbal communications you will learn a lot, and if you're not familiar with all the ways a woman communicates, and who truly is, experience will be a good teacher. Don't expect to be perfect at a young age. You most likely are not a "Don Juan", or maybe not the closest thing to a "Don Juan", so listen to her. And trust your own feelings too. I can only laugh when I remember a "blind date" I had back in my freshman year in college, and when I arrived at the girl's house I found out her mother was my senior highschool english teacher, and we both freaked out!! And then, at the conclusion of our first and only date, she had given me so many hickies about my neck and shoulders that I looked like I had fallen into a snake pit! And her mother worried about me?! Yeah, right!! You'll make a few mistakes from time to time and maybe get your ego bruised from time to time, but what boy or girl, man or woman, hasn't. It's all a part of the game. All a part of life. Be respectful, as obviously you are, and enjoy life. If you start to kiss her and she damn near rapes you, well, don't say I didn't warn you. But be respectful and sensitive, and she'll love you and respect you all the more for it. I can promise you that. God Bless you.

Answer 5

Easy enough. At the end of the date is when you make the move on the door step. Lean in 80% of the way, and let her come the last 20%. If she moves for the door, back off, if she comes in closer, then you got it.

I recommend a movie for you: "Hitch" with Will Smith. rent it, watch it, learn something.

Answer 6

until she give you a hint, but i suggust the guys should active than the girls.(but don't act as a lady-killer, try to act you are first time to kiss a girl) the right time shoud be when you say good bye to her, give her a good bye kiss, if she dooesn't rufuse you! it means she likes you!( try to read her face is she happy or not)

if she likes you, she will call you again when she get home! you could date her again..................... :P ( if she hates you or doesn't like you, she would never call you again!! good luck guys!!

Answer 7

well r u going out? if so then it depends on how long. if its been like 2 day then wait a lil bit. but after a bit u should do it romantically. dont do it stupidly espically scence u havnt yet. u want the first to be memorable. jsut do it romantically and slowly and if she leans in as well then go for it. girls like romantic pationate kisses and are cute.

Answer 8

Sometimes you might have to take a chance . Don't go to far right off. Treat her with respect.

Answer 9

WELL IF SHE EVEN LIKES YOU A LITTLE BIT THEN SHE WILL KISS YOU NO MATTER WHAT LOL AND I GUESS THE TIME JUST COMES LIKE YOU CANT PLAN IT OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT LOL (YOU CAN BUT LOL DONT WORRY BOUT THAT) I DONT THINK THAT IF YOU TRY TO KISS HER THEN SHE IS GOING TO BACK AWAY OO I DONT LIKE YOU DONT KISS ME OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT LOL GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

Just do it guessing whether or not u should will just make you look nervous and she will notice just do it at the right time