I still want to be a virgin. And it seems fast I just met him yesterday. But I still want him to like me!! What should I do??
2006-06-17 16:38:54 · 98 answers · asked by hottywitabody18610 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is incomplete without sex
2006-06-17 16:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by khanismine 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If A Guy Forces You Into Something You Don't Want To Do It's Kind Of Like Rape Wouldn't You Say? No Means No And He Needs To Grow Up And Realize Your Feelings Are Involved Here It's Not Just ABout Sex It's About Respect.
2006-06-17 16:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by nitehawk8075 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are SO many ways to answer this question that it almost boggles the mind. If you "only met him yesterday" DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM ANY TIME SOON! Virginity is one of the most precious things you have...give it away ONLY after clear thought is part of the process. Take a deep breath and look at this situation logically. How long is this bonehead gonna stay with you after you give up your most precious possesion? You don't give your age so it's hard to advise properly but, I'll assume that you are "young". Advice: Give that which you can only give once to one who is deserving...
2006-06-17 16:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by 4nik8er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't wait or take no when it comes to something that is as important to as your feelings on your virginity then why would you want to keep him as a boyfriend? Do what YOU think is right and not what he might be trying to force you into thinking is right because it sounds like the only thing that he cares about in your short relationship time together is himself.
2006-06-17 16:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by helmet_hair76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell, him, this boyfriend, if he really wants to be in your life he should be prepared to wait until you are ready, if he is not prepared to wait, kick him to the curb and find someone who is prepared to wait, and be a little more understanding. Always remember it is your body, you have the say as to what happens to it. Not knowing your age and his is a problem, but at the end of the day it is down to you to make a choice that you feel comfortable with. You want to remain a virgin, you go for it girl, and stay a virgin, good on you
2006-06-17 16:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by twinkles532000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this guy that you just met yesterday sounds like he only wants one thing "SEX" Girl get real and let it go and find yourself a real guy who will not force sex on you. When you are ready and both you and the guy you are truly in love with then make that choice.....
Take Care and Good Luck to You. Let me know what happens if you want.....
2006-06-17 16:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important to you--him liking you, or keeping your virginity? He obviously likes sex more than he likes you, if he's trying to force you into it! And, once he gets all he can get from you, then he will dump you for someone else and do the same with them. If you don't want your heart to be broken, save your virginity for someone who loves and respects you as much as you love and respect them--and wait until you're married. Otherwise, you will regret giving this special part of yourself away to someone who has raging hormones, but doesn't want to consider YOUR feelings.
2006-06-17 16:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a very good thing that you want to stay a virgin. if he can't respect the fact that you want to stay a virgin, then he isn't the guy for you. don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. what's even worse you met him yesterday. he needs to wait, you keeping your virginity is more important.
2006-06-17 16:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by pa_luv76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy who met you yesterday and wants sex today, is only after sex, he is not a boyfriend and will move on anyway once he has had sex with you. Tell him to move on.
2006-06-17 16:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the one for you. Dump him and find a guy who wants to wait. They do still exist. It has been a day, you think he will last a week? No, he will end up raping you if he is already trying to force you after a day.
2006-06-17 16:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by boit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it. You can not get it back once it is gone. If you are being pressured for sex and you've only been with the guy for one day I hope you see that he only wants you for sex and your being used. I hope you know you are better than this and kick this guy to the curb. You may think it's cool to be doing it but it's not cool to look back and realize you made a huge mistake with some sleeze ball that was using you.
2006-06-17 16:42:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋