I tried to resolve my problem with my mom......?

Question

I can't do it anymore I wrote her a letter and put all my feelings inside
But my mom is like pure evil
She just yelled at me more when I wrote her a letter
I'm crying now b/c she wants to give me up
and what type of mother does that?
Please help me again guys!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

JUST DONT SAY NOTHIN TO HER U HAVE DONE YOUR PART IN TRYING TO REACH OUT TO HER AND TELL HER HOW U FEEL. DONT TRY TO MAKE THE EFFORT ANYMORE BC WHEN U DO IT SEEMS TO ONLY GET WORSE DOESNT IT. SEE U GOT URSELF CRYING BC SHE YELLED AT U MORE THEN USUAL..IF U HAVE DONE ALL U THINK A DAUGHTER CAN DO THEN KEEP UR DISTANCE FROM HER THEN MAYBE SHE MIGHT COME AROUND AND REGRET WHAT SHE DOES TO YOU. IT MIGHT BE MONTHS OR YEARS LATER BUT SHE WILL SEE.

Answer 2

Well it all depends on what happened sweetheart, Mothers are only human and sometimes life gets so unbearable you don't know how to react with everything that is thrown at you. But it's great that instead of yelling back at her you were respectful and just wrote out your feelings. Give her some time and don't worry to much, she'll get over it becasue believe me she loves you!!! She only wants the best for you even though she may be to hurt, worried, or inexperienced to tell you in a nicer way then yelling at the to of her lungs. This is her way of proving to you she cares!!! Smile, god is watching over you and protecting your family always

Answer 3

Is there someone you can talk to? An aunt, your grandmother, or a family friend that you trust? Tell them how you feel and your side of what's going on. Then this is the important part LISTEN to what they tell you. Maybe they can talk to your Mom and find out what her side of this is. Parents get overwhelmed and believe it not they sometimes don't know what to do. You think being a child is hard....being a parent is extra hard because you're responsible for somebody else. So stop crying leave you mom alone for awhile and maybe next week try to find someone you can talk to and see how it goes.

Answer 4

ONE WORD: Family Counseling...talk to a counseler..if you are still in school talk to one at your school...if you are an adult then try hiring or finding a friend that could sit down with your mother and ask what is wrong....I understand feeling rejected by your parents and of course time will heal all things, but I know how you feel...you want it to be fixed now....Just try to see why she is angry....maybe there is something that you can do for her...maybe on her birthday send her fav. flowers or try writing another letter telling her that if she doesn't calm down that she will lose you and then you need to move on...Talking with someone is always a good place to get help, but make sure that the person you get advice from won't make more problems.....

Answer 5

Don't be hard on your mom. She really loves you and teen years are hard for both mom and kids. Ask her if you can talk about it without yelling. I don't know what was in the letter but, I think she is probably really worried about something that you are doing or feeling. Yes, she shouldn't have yelled but, I am sure she feels bad about it too. Tomorrow is a new day. Try to talk about it again............I know you both love each other.

Answer 6

i don't know what the problem is with your mother .. maybe she feels she can't cope anymore and is just about to really loose it... it sounds like it.. i have been so stressed with my daughter that i have said and done things in anger and i have never meant it. What else is going on in your mothers life??? can't really help u much cause i don't know the reasons and stuff. My parents divorced when i was 13 and when my mum found a new bf i was such a Bit ch and she sent me to lIve with my dad , but i ended up living with my drug user/seller sister and her bf used 2 bashed the crap out of her and she also had other small children to cope with and she lost it a few times, now ive been a single mum for 11 yrs and now ive met a lovely man and my daughter cause so much stress and i have been fighting pretty bad with her and have wanted to kill her at times.. but ive never meant anything ive said .. maybe your too cheeky to your mother ? or maybe your mum is just nasty.. be good if you could email and tel me more cause i wanna help you, no kid should feel like that and im sorry.if u wanna email me just add @yahoo.com.au in after my nick name ok

Answer 7

Dad's not there? Yeah, she can't do that 'give ya up' line on ya.. it's freakin' ya out. It ain't right.. (You are right to think that..) We all screw up tho. (Hell, I do it so much it ain't funny anymore.) I am wondering what the main issue is (what did ya put in the letter I mean?) Is she p.o.'d ya didn't do something, some advice she gave ya.. she wants to be the 'mom' and tell ya what to do (Moms do that) but you rebel against it? .. something like that? (just guessing.. I dunno.) Why'd she yell at ya? I think it's a good idea to write **** down, ya know. (I wish my kids' do that stead of ignore me, not mind/listen to the ****/advice I give 'em..) She isn't serious about giving you up.. she's trying to 'win some point' somewhere.. she is making here.. but I don't have the facts to know what this point is(?!) Well, it sounds like a major blow up and I am sorry bout that!! g'luck honey.. (Skip writing the letters I'd say.. kind of tune her out/don't say **** for a while, o.k.? Seems to be blowing up in your face right now.. and I don't know why. ) Get w/somebody else older to talk to her is my advice.. K? Hope ya got someone, honey..

Answer 8

If you are having that many problems with her maybe she can't be a good parent right now. Giving you up may seem cruel now but she may be doing the best thing she can for you. My best friend just finished classes to be a foster parent. She's great with her kids & any kid would be lucky to be in their home. If it comes to that, try to give your new family a chance. It takes a special person to be a "good" foster parent.

Answer 9

How old are you? If you are young probably you don't realize yet that your Mom only wants your happiness. Try to understand her, don't yell her back, because it could be worse. Just relax, spend your free times in interesting things... be good and you'll see that sooner or later things gonna work out.

Answer 10

I wish I could just hug all you girls with mom problems......Please, always remember that she loves you. We as parents (human beings) screw up from time to time. I'm not taking her side because I'm a mom too, but you really need to talk to her about how bad you are hurting from the way she is treating you......Mom's forget that they need to listen and don't know everything just because they are the mom.......Sweetie, just give her some time to cool off from whatever she is mad about, and everything will be okay......