I went out with this boy named gabriel it was love at first sight then 3 months later i don't know what happend not knowing he was cheating on me with some girl that i didn't like so i decided to ask him was it true he had the courage to say we never went out i hate you u mean nothing to me. to this very day i still think about it about all the times we shared but people tell im toooo pretty for a guy treat me like that i don't think i can ever love a guy the way i loved him ever again I feel like my life is empty without him but i need to move on right?
2006-06-17 16:21:46 · 17 answers · asked by caligirlweather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YEAH JUST MOVE ON..HE CHEATED ON U SO THEREFORE HE WAS JUST SHOWING U THAT U WER NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM BUT HE WAS AND IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR U. U SHOULDNT HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IF U CAN EVER LOVE SOMEONE THE WAY U LOVED HIM AFTER ALL I THINK LOVE WILL COME TO YOU WHEN U LEAST EXPECTED IT. YOU NEVER KNOW WHATS AT THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP AS WE KNOW IT CAN LEAD TO MANY THINGS KIDS. MARRIAGE, BROKEN HEARTS, AND THE LIST JUST GOES ON. DONT SELL YOURSELF SHORT ON A CHEATER. FOCUS YTOUR ATTENTION ON SOMETHING ELSE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY OTHER THAN FOCUSING IT ON SOMEONE THAT HURTS YOU. DONT ENDURE ON PAIN.
2006-06-17 16:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off breaking up sucks. But the pain goes away. Just try and vent. No backstabbing jerk is worth the trouble. He'll just do it again.
OK, for most of us guys. The thing that is going on in our head is SEX. Thats usally all we can think about.
Some of us exspecially the shy type just want someone nice to talk with and hold. Those guys are 100% percent loyal. Some are alittle unexperianced and are prone to mistakes. Just remember its probley due to some anxiety.
The best route to take is a slow and steady one in a relationship. If you go out with a guy and he pressures you to have sex then thats all he wants. He isn't worth it. Just start off being friends and see if the personality match. Then move on from there. But don't jump into things. Before you engage in sexual activity its best for both of you guys to get tested for stds, aids, etc. Then use condoms and birth control.
THEN ITS TENACIOUS D TIME MUTHA FUKA YEAH!!!!!!!!
2006-06-17 16:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Frak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not use the word "Love" so loosely as it is obvious that you are to young to know... .
In the beginning there is only an attraction.. mostly due to hormones (especially in boys)......
Young boys will say what you want to hear to get as far as they can with you.. If you don't give in than it will be off to the next catch.
If you do last longer with him you will notice (in most cases) a boy that is so jealous of almost anything.. You can't even look at anyone else, or talk to them either. He becomes so controlling while at the same time will do his own thing as if the rules never apply to him only you.
This should be a clue that you should not give in to the smooth talker. Believe me, I used to be one...
Don't follow pop culture where anything goes... you will loose in the end...
Move on...
2006-06-17 16:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I dont think I can ever love a guy the way I loved him ever again" That's totally not true...there are plenty of fish in the sea, the right on for you is out there, just keep your eyes open. You shoudl move on, no guy should treat a girl like that, so you really need to move on, and again, the right guy for you will come in time.
2006-06-17 16:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young or immature, a few dates or rolls in the hay as they say do not constitute love or relationship material, your emotions are high and you're feeling are hurt that you were used and tossed aside. Get a better outlook for yourself, you don't deserve to be treated like trash, you can do better, keep yourself out in the race but let them know you're a champion show, not someones *****.
2006-06-17 16:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by moonnightsoar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to move on. No matter how much you love him you deserve better then that. Take time since time is the only thing that can heal you. Pamper yourself, and just focus on your inner healing. Good luck.
2006-06-17 16:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were only with him for three months, you should definitely move on... if you found love with someone like that in 3 months then you'll find love again.
2006-06-17 16:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy said those things to you then you weren't right to date him. it might have felt like love, but all he did was hurt you. you never forget your first love but you need to move on. find someone who doesn't lie about loving you and will really care for you.
2006-06-17 16:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by illinios2hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words!
2006-06-17 16:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by UCURGYPSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, true love doesnt hurt, one day you will find a guy who you will feel love for and they will love you in the exact way you love them..no hurt or pain involved whatsoever....
2006-06-17 16:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋