2006-06-17 16:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by ben c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that there's money in it for her.
Give her a box of chocolates, but keep in mind what Mark Twain said, "Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker."
2006-06-17 16:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm a girl and a good way to convince me( lets say your gonna ask me) to go out with you, first I would want you to be my friend. Like, I would want you to show some really good qualities like, your nice, really funny, good sense of humor, smart, and at least someway charming. Can't be mean. Next when I show that your my friend, and some clue that I like you, go for the hit. But first you gotta show some qualities that would attract me to you. You can't go up to a girl and tell her you love her straight up, I would feel ackward with some guy telling me he loves me out of no where.
2006-06-17 16:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a specific one then? I'm guessing so. It's pretty normal to wonder how to go about this for a guy.. Find out (check with her friends if you can.. or have YOUR friends check with HER friends.. lol) what she is interested in.. where she 'hangs' at.. GO there! Be like 'real available..' Make eye contact. Don't like follow her around, just be casual about it like. Maybe it's a good idea (you sound like teen age) to use these friends a little here.. I know.. I know.. someone else will say not to do it.. but hell, I'm answering this question and telling you some valuable ****! anyhow, maybe you can get someone to ask her about hangin' w/ya.. Find what this chick likes (****, maybe she's crazy about pizza places, I dunno..) and ask her to go/hang w/ya there.. Ya can't go wrong... later
2006-06-17 16:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't convince you impress. Show her what you are about. Give her flowers, a box of chocolate, throw her hints and then ask her out on a date with all respect.
2006-06-17 16:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you have to convince her first of all? If you have asked her before and she turned you down go ahead and ask her why. It's better to ask and know why she is turning you down than to keep subjecting yourself to rejection.
2006-06-17 16:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by MorticiaJones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't because you only want a girl who will do it on the first date. Get a hooker she'll be more your type by the sounds of things.
2006-06-17 16:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she wants to go out with a group of friends at first, then see how she acts around you.....You'll know if she's interested!!!!!! Good Luck
2006-06-17 16:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some that take cash or credit cards
honestly if you do not have good manners and charm I say you would never convince one. or try asking one.
2006-06-17 16:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat her how ladies are supposed to be treated, take her out on a very romantic date. And remeber to keep talking to her,compliment her on everything she does.
2006-06-17 16:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan Silva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince anyone. She's either interested or she's not.
2006-06-17 16:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by oscbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋