My boyfriend haves been acting different. When I call him he doesn't returns my phone calls and he wants to know why I always get mad at him. I love him so much and we have been through alot together. We both are stressing trying to work our relationship out. People don't want to see us together. Even our parents. What should I do I love him to much to just let him walk out my life like that. I ask him, you must not love me if you have to think about if you want to be with me or not. And then he said he will always love me no matter what even if we go our seperate ways. I cry every day and night thinking about this.
2006-06-17 16:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah thats it you need to stop arguing with him because thats the only reason why he would want to leave trust me men hate to curse with there woman and you need to let it be all about him and not about you for once, listen to him because he can have something to say and your not the person he would talk to because all you do is argue. Take time out to be there for him no matter what a man loves when he is being comforted so he is knows that your there for him don't think about other people because you are with him you are not with people you need to know that for a fact that you need to pay attention to your man o.k let him talk he is tired of hearing you talk.
show him that you are willing no matter what to be there for him o.k and i tell you that when he see a change he is going to change give him time and then if he decides to talk back to you remember listen, let him talk, and girl give him space, you need to know that because men always love there space. And give yourself to him speak with the less hurtful words and stop involving people in your life it is between the two of you and that means if anything happen you say baby i am sorry is there anything we can do to change it and you let him express his self for once and you will see he just needs some time because you are arguing all the time thats all. hey you need to stop argue because he will not only avoid you but he will not be there for you anymore. and to what i am reading you love him so girlfriend please do all you can to keep him drop your attitude o.k and just love him.
2006-06-17 16:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i went through something like that i just asked him if he would do anything for me.... and he said that all he wants was the best and if breaking up would take some stress off my shoulders that he would do it... we broke up four years ago now im with the most wonderful guy i met him two years ago and one of those years we have been in a very serious relation ship... so let me just say that if you break up just remember everything has a purpose in this life and try to focus on the good never on the bad....
2006-06-17 16:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~It's hard but you have to have the attitude that whatever is meant to happen will happen, and you can't control what someone else decides. Try to just give him his space right now.. it could be that he is scared of the long term thing and wants space. Don't smother him. If he truly loves you back, he'll come around on his own. Girls think differently then guys.. and after you get older you will know what I mean.~
2006-06-17 16:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spending some time apart. There's the old saying "If you love someone set him free..." There are instances when taking a break will let you see where the relationship is going and if it's truly worth saving.
2006-06-17 16:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by shyvicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know but if he loves you then why woul dhe have to think what is it that could be stopping him from decideing if he wants to be with you i wish i can tell you a helpful answer check this out jsut the other day my boyfriend asked me what would i do if he would break up with me i said i would be sad and i would cry. so i asked him the same question and he told me he dont know so i dont know but good luck but i am sure he loves you but maybe his emotions are mixed up jsut try to talk to him ok here's my email tell me how things go daniellepapillion@yahoo.com see ya
2006-06-17 16:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely wants some kind of break. Give it to him. If he loves you that much he will not stay away for long. Have the confidence to walk away. His actions will speak louder than words. I know this will be hard but you need to put the doubt about his love to rest. Good luck!!!
2006-06-17 16:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by alter_egob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. He sounds like he cares about you but your making it hard for him to end it. Like your putting a guilt trip on him. His going to leave sooner or later so way not keep your dignity and pride and let him go. I know it's hard but have some self pride and end it. Why not tell him you want to end it so it's easier for him. If you truly love him you will let him go. If he comes back and you want him then it's meant to be.
2006-06-17 16:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, sweetie, give him room to breathe.......Give him a little time to himself to figure out exactly what he wants with no pressure.......He'll come back to you if it was meant to be, and if not 'tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." Good Luck dear!!!!!!
2006-06-17 16:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop crying and just be straight forward let him know that you want him and remind him why he wants you
2006-06-17 16:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dry your eyes its going to be okay just take it one day at a time if its meant to be he will be back trust me listen to the song in my mind by heather headley
2006-06-17 16:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by G's Gurl for life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋