Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just alittle over 4 months and I am having thoughts about how long its going to last.Im a very open and out going person who likes to socialize and have fun. She is very quiet and has a hard time letting lose, laughing being carefree. Its starting to bug me alot. And I am catching myself trying to change her and I dont like that.Im wandering if its me that is keeping her from letting lose. or thats the way she is and thats that. What do you think I should do? HELP!
2006-06-17 16:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jess C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a good idea to change anyone, will not work. You seem to be very perceptive. I'm sure you will figure out the answer for yourself.
2006-06-17 16:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't know how to let go., if after 4 months she still has not let her hair down.Then have a heart to heart talk with her and ask her ( what is she looking for and why doe's she want to be your G/F )
2006-06-17 23:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Search 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and see how things go. Thats the whole point of dating...to find out how you get along with another person.
2006-06-17 23:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by UCURGYPSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant accept her for the way she is, then maybe you should just be friends with her. It can be hard when 2 people dont have anything in common, they tend to "clash".....
2006-06-17 23:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is that you're trying to change her so that you can be more happy. you shouldn't do that. you dated her because of a quality she had that you liked. if you don't think that's enough then it's up to you what you want to do.
2006-06-17 23:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by illinios2hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,if u realy luv her ......u should talk to her about it and ask her questions of how u feel
..butt dont let that make u break up or git in fight
2006-06-17 23:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by bbchk013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋