ok, I've been going out with my boyfrind for a year and we decieded we would not have sex till we were married but we've messed around (1st base 2nd base and some of 3rd ) but about a month ago we had sex and after that happend he started acting weird and will not talk to me or answer my calls. I thought I was pregnate but it turns out I'm not which is good. but I'd really like my b/f back but I don't think he wants me anymore and this guy that i'm friends with wants me to date him what should I do?????????????? BTW I'm 23 and my boyfriends 24
2006-06-17 16:07:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he was planing it from the start, say he doesn't want sex you think oh how sweet eventually have sex with him and he doesn't want anything to do with you... or he just freaked out and doesn't know what to do, but the point is hes not wroth it if hes going to be like this.. and by the way I'm single ;) ;)
2006-06-17 16:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is backing off all you can do after you've tried talking to him is to let him go. Maybe he's not having a problem with you, he could be having a problem with himself. You two decided not to have sex and he gave in. I think you may be acting too fast getting into another relationship so soon. It's not required that you have a boyfriend, maybe you should take a break and just have fun with your friends for awhile.
2006-06-17 23:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even considering this other guy then maybe you weren't that serious with your boyfriend anyways.. He sounds like a jerk at first... 24 year old aren't supposed to act like that, but maybe he is just acting weird because he is scared about the pregnancy thing. Then at second he still sounds like a jerk because hes freaking 24 years old, grow up and dump somebody like a man!! I think you deserve better than him. Stop calling him your boyfriend!
2006-06-17 23:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by sososad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Very strange. Sounds kinda fishy. Are you sure he wasn't cheating before you guys had sex? Why did you have sex when you had decided to wait? Well, it's probably good that you did because if you had married him, had sex, then he did this.. it would be worse. Move on honey and find someone else. Sorry you're going through this though.. but you deserve better.~
2006-06-17 23:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a guy back who had sex with you and wouldn't return your calls? If he wasn't answering your calls because you were pregnant, do you really want him back? If this is how he reacts during a "crisis" or a situation where you need him...why in the world would you want anyone like that?
2006-06-17 23:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE, YOUR PREDICAMENT IS NO DIFFERENT FROM A TYPICAL GIRL'S. SEE, WHAT U GAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND A MONTH AGO IS ALL MOST OF THESE YOUNG MEN ARE LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN THESE DAYS. SERIOUSLY! I'M SPEAKING FROM WHAT I'VE WITNESSED HAPPEN TO AT LEAST 3 OF MY FRIENDS. I CAN ASSURE U THIS ATTITUDE THING HE IS GIVING U WILL NOT STOP, SO MY LITTLE UNPROFESSIONAL ADVICE TO U IS THAT "JUST GO GET YOUR LIFE".BE CAREFUL NEXT TIME, OKAY? ALL THE BEST!
2006-06-17 23:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by haianda2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words 'Screw him'. If he doesn't want to talk to you or anything after you two had sex...depending on the duration really...or if he doesnt want to deal with you if he thought you got pregant..then f*ck him [excuse the language] because that's not the type of guy you should be with. But give it time and think about it.
2006-06-17 23:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok; did you ask what is up? if you had decided to wait at first does he feel like he has sinned? if you were a first; does he feel inadaquate? pregnancy can be a big scare and eye opener; maybe he realized he isnt into such a committed relationship. As to what to do...if you want your boyfriend; dont mess with the other friend...duh!...but if you talk to your boyfriend and he doesnt want to be together then maybe he wasnt worth it.
2006-06-17 23:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably not impressed with you in bed. Men are like that. That happened to a friend of mines once. Don't worry and give the other one a try. Life goes on.
2006-06-17 23:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he just stops talking to you there has to be a reason unless all he wanted at the time is sex! Ask him! Tell him how you feel also! If he just used you for sex, forget about him and move on!
2006-06-17 23:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋