ok i REALLY like this guy named Ryan and he really likes me...or a least that's what everyone says. He's really into me and he flirts with me all the time. I like him so much and i can't stop thinking about him. everyone says that i should just ask him out but i just say oim old fashioned and he should ask me out. is it ok for girls to ask guys out? if im too shy to ask him out myself then how else would i do it?
2006-06-17 15:48:56 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's shy too. Someone has to make the move--so why not you?
2006-06-17 15:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Paul F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, ABSOLUTELY! I asked my boyfriend out and we have been together for over 3 years. Go for it girl, I was the same way, old-fashioned, but man this guy had my heart wrapped around his finger so I had to take the chance. I did, he said yes and now here we are more than 3 years later happy as can be.
2006-06-17 15:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think its ok. But I also think its the "gentlemen" thing 2 do for the guy to ask the girl. I'm also in a case like yours, I want to ask the guy out, but, scared. I hope you get the guts up 2 do it!!!
2006-06-17 15:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bridgette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy.. Make it something simple.. Like, going out to a movie.. or McDonald's.. or ?? take it from there.. the worse that could happen is he'll tell you no.. and you won't really know unless you ask..
2006-06-17 15:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by MissDaisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's fine. Actually, there's a lot of guys who will be very grateful that they don't have to make the first move. Seems all the initial burden is put on us until after the first date. Then it's the woman who controls things anyway. lol
2006-06-17 15:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with asking a guy out i do it all the time..I think men now days like the women to be in control
2006-06-17 15:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dare to be different. Guys have to choke down the fear of asking girls out all the time. Prove that males and females are equal and you take the initiative.
2006-06-21 03:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by sir_galahad_ks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey yeah it is definitely OK for a girl to ask a guy out I've done it and it definitely works and if you are to shy/ embarrassed ask a friend to do it for you or just wait until you have built up the courage to do so
2006-06-17 15:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by tmitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should women sit around and wait for a man to ask? Forget the 'traditional' path of letting the man do it. We're women, not mice for goodness sake.
2006-06-17 15:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixdreamangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How I wish more girls asked guys out!! To answer your other question, perhaps you could arrange for a group of your and his friends to go out, or have a party first.
2006-06-17 15:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be fine for girls to ask guys out. I think it would make things a lot easier.
If you cannot do it, perhaps ask a mutual friend.
2006-06-17 15:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by serpagon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋