Hi there's thid guy i really like. I like him so much and stuff. I want to go out with him and all but....
But I dont no if he feels the same.
I really want to tell him but then again im scared and afraid he will say no he doesn't want to and i'll end up cry because i have never asked a guy out and i will start crying because im really soft hearted and it will hurt if he says no.
So what should i do.
2006-06-17 15:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by apw_lovedove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will never know until you ask him even if it hurts you..What if he does like you and your sitting here worrying about nothing..Go ahead and give it a whirl.. Come back and let us know how it all went ok? ok
2006-06-17 15:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 16⤊ 3⤋
These sorts of love issues maybe/maybe not are REALLY painfull sometimes, especially if you don't drink beer. You should ask him anyway, then cry if you need to. Talk with friends, sleep a lot, etc. Then find the next possibility. Do it all again, as many times as you have to. Its the human condition, unless you give up on love and thats worse.
2006-06-17 15:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you don't want to be rejected if he says no, but you really don't know how he feels. I think is better for you to let your feeling out and don't hide them because later on in life you will be asking yourself why you did not do it and what will the outcome might have been if you did say something to him. That is my thought of it.
2006-06-17 15:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by ruthy08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same issue and all i can say is that for your sake dont risk it because you will get hurt. i am the same way and i got hurt really bad and it took 2 years for me to get over him... so save yourself from the pain and dont do it. I am sure there is a better guy out there for you.
2006-06-17 15:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by bigblueeyes_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the answer, the fact that you asked the question is the important part. By doing so you are actually practicing. So what if he says no, try again later... don't give up.
2006-06-17 15:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dport 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is full of rejections..
and life is also pretty short..
so just doo it!! tell him, ask him.. and if he doesnt agree with u..
then u know what?! you're probably better than him anyway!!! he'll miss out on something amazing... and thats HIS loss..
but hunnyyyy.. dont cry over this.. k? just get out more... im positive you'll find yourself a great guy..who feels the same way you do about him..
2006-06-17 15:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any of your friends are friends with him, see if they'll ask him if he wants to go to a movie with his "guy" friends plus your friend and her friends. That way, you can: end up going to a movie with him, test to see if he likes you like that, and be "going out" with him with a room full of people so you don't have to feel so uncomfortable. And this way if he says no, you won't be so hurt.
2006-06-17 15:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i think u should but tell him can u talk some where privet where no one is around because sometime they like to show of in front of people and then ask him will he ant tell him all about your feeling about him and tell him that u like him a lot. well tell me what happiness with u to OK .Chat later.
2006-06-17 15:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by candylike15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through this and maybe you should just go for it and if he says no then he's the one who should be crying. HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU CAN FLY IF YOU NEVER JUMP!!! :)
2006-06-17 15:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by love_struck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he likes you....
2006-06-17 15:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋