Is it ok for a 14 YR OLD GIRL to got out with an 18YR OLD BOY???

Question

if you think you really love him and trust him, but you have only talked to him online...should you start a relationship??
I'm just not sure what to do. PLzz give a reason why!!

Answer 1

yeah age is nothing i its just a number

Answer 2

I would definitely say "no"! I know when I was 14, I felt that I was very mature and knew everything. Now that I am older, I realize how wrong I was. When you are in your teens, there is a big difference in the maturity level of a 14yr old and an 18 yr old (both mentally and physically). I think you should really be asking yourself this: "What is wrong w/ this guy?" and “Why would he want to date a 14 yr old girl?". To any normal 18 yr old bman, a 14 yr old girl still comes across (as well as looks like) a young kid. This boy definitely has problems; not to mention that this type of relationship could land him in jail.
BTW, how can you love and trust anyone who you have only met online. I mean, you have never met him! One can't possibly have any physical or emotional chemistry w/ someone that they have never met! You also, must remember that he is only what he is telling you. For all you know, he could be much older than 18, fat and balding. And, don't you think that it is just a little bit creepy that he is 'phishing' around for young teenage girls? This would be the last place any 'normal' 18 yr old boy would be searching for romance.
Take my advice...... Tell him that the relationship is obviously completely illegal and that you are not ready to date someone that you don't know already. You also, should cut off ALL communication w/ him, since he really could be some child molester. This is by far the safest action to take. I have heard too many stories of older men, who arrange to meet young girls like you via the internet and then proceed to abduct them. Of course, he has probably has already told you everything that you have ever wanted to hear from a man. But, you have to believe that it's not too hard to figure out what a 14 yr old, or any age woman for that matter, wants to hear (especially if he wants you to love and trust him). Stay away!!!!

Answer 3

ok, he's 18 and you're 14 and you met him online... In the movies and in very rare rere situation this could work out beautifully. But this is not a movie and your odds are not good. An 18 has alot more experience and knowledge in his head than you do. Some older men try and take advantage of younger girls such as yourself. That is the 1 reason why no. Then the whole internet thing... you cant be 100% sure that this person is who they say they are...

You are gonna do what you want but if advice is what you are looking for here it is:
A 14yr has her whole life ahead of her... Many other love opportunities will come for you GUARANTEED and with guys you meet in your regular life and face to face... Its not a good idea to start a relationship with anyone you haven't even seen at the age of 14. You have no idea who this person is... You have no logical reason to trust him and seriously I know this is what you t to hear but... do u really think that you are in LOVE with someone who's voice you haven't even heard.....

Then finally the last big issue is that he is an Adult which makes it pretty much illegal for him to date you.... He can go to jail... You don't need to be thinking about serious things like that while you're dating him.. you're supposed be having fun!

Answer 4

I don't think it is appropriate to start a relationship with a 18 year old boy if you are only 14. Older boys have way different things on their minds than boys your age. I would not encourage a relationship with someone you have only talked to online, but i am not your mother and if you are sure you really trust him you can. BUT make sure you tell someone you trust, such as a best friend, parent or family member so that they know what is going on, in case anything ever happens.

Answer 5

First off, it is illegal. Second, you can't love him that much without meeting. How do you know it's not a 65 year old pervert? Third, You need to find someone your own age, just for the common interests. At 14, 4 more years makes a world of difference. Chill out and take it easy.

Answer 6

I wouldn't do it.. If you only talked to him online, how do you know he's not a sicko or something? And I'm not against big age differences when it comes to dating, but 14 is just too young to be dating an 18 yr old.

Answer 7

Yes its ok but be careful... there are a lot of sick ppl in the world .. im a 13 yr. old and i was almost lured to a 32 yr. old mans house who was pretending to be a 13 yr. old girl.... so he says hes 18 but are you sure?... if you think o but he's shown me pics. So what he could have gotten them from the internet so yes it is ok .. u cant conrol who u fall in love with .... but u need to be very careful...u relly should find some one more ur age like some one at school or from church or (me ) *cough*
Any way im starting to sound like a broken record but as long as your careful and u do trust him i guess u can

Answer 8

I really don't think there is anything wrong with age because I personally have done the same thing. But It's the fact that he is online... I know you may trust him but if you have never seen him person you don't know who really is. So I would have to say don't start a relationship with him unless you have meet him in person...

Answer 9

First, it's illegal second I doubt the parents will approve and why is a grown man chasing after a child that's sounds as if he's a pedophile!
Meeting on the internet means using extreme and complete caution, not talking on here at fourteen and running off to meet a stranger! DO NOT meet this man nor speak to him anymore, tell your parents and if needed a law enforcer asap.

Answer 10

NOOO
BECAUSE YOU ARE WAY YOUNGER THAN HIM
AND IN THESE KIND OF RELATIONSHIPS WHEN THE DUDE IS OLDER HE USUALLY CONTROLS HIS GIRLFRIEND!!! JUST BECAUSE SHES YOUNGER AND IF HE SAYS SOMETHING LIKE IF YOU TELL ANYBODY THIS I'LL HURT YOU OR WHATEVER HES GONNA THINK U WONT SAY ANYTHING CAUSE UR YOUNGER!! JUST STOP SEEING HIM OR HE IS GONNA START CONTROLLING UR EVERY MOVE
HE MIGHT SEEM NICE AT FIRST BUT U NEVER KNOW HE MIGHT BE TWO-FACED OR SLEEP WITH YOU THEN MOVE TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD MIGHT SOUND CRAZY BUT PEOPLE DO THIS
JUST BE ON THE SAFE SIDE STOP SEEING HIM BEFORE ANYTHING HAPPENS

Answer 11

I wouldn't start a relationship with a guy I knew off the internet. He might be a Online Creep. and your only 14. you have your whole life ahead of you.