Do you think I should be mad with my boyfriend because he did not want to bring me along to meet his aunt that is visiting from Mexico?
2006-06-17 14:54:58 · 21 answers · asked by lauritalucky@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his explanation was that he did not want to spend too much time there. Should I say sorry then? how should I say sorry?
2006-06-17 15:00:46 · update #1
we have been dating for a year and 6 months, and we live together so that's why i wonder why he doesn't want to bring me with.
2006-06-17 15:02:59 · update #2
i do know the rest of his family. thanks to everyone who answered my question
2006-06-17 15:04:50 · update #3
He's your boyfriend, not your husband. Lighten up.
2006-06-17 14:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been together and where you want this relationship to go. If you have been together for over two years and are wanting a marriage out of this relationship, then he might not be the one for you if he's not wanting you to meet his family. However there could be more then you know, maybe it's not you that he's not wanting to bring around them, maybe it's them. You really have to evaluate your relationship. How is he in other aspects of your relationship??
2006-06-17 22:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by leebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you have been dating, and how serious you guys are. Family might be very important to him, and maybe he wants to be careful who he brings around them. Not that you are going to be a psycho killer or anything, but maybe he just wants to make sure he's ready to present his gf to the most impt people in his life. He might be nervous for their approval or criticism. He must have a good reason, even if the truth hurts..he's not ready to take that step with u. There's nothing wrong w/ that, he needs to explain a good, healthy reason though.
2006-06-17 22:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by difficult 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends - did he give you a reason why? If so, what was it? I wouldn't get too upset about it I guess. Maybe he just wanted to visit her by himself. However, if he refuses to introduce you to the rest of his family as well, I would certainly be suspicious!
2006-06-17 22:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't get mad. He might not have had the money 2 bring u their 2.
2006-06-17 21:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think you should be mad, because he might have a reason why he didn't take you and it really might not have anything to do with you. i think you should ask him and if the answer seems funny then you will know if its something on his side or you
2006-06-17 21:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by pa_luv76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you dont know why he didnt want to take you it could have been that he didnt want his aunt to embarass him in front of you.
2006-06-17 22:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Blonde13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to speed things along sweetie but give him time he'll come along
2006-06-17 21:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by denise m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. he probably has a really good explination IE his aunt knows all his secrets, and was living with him when he was little
2006-06-17 21:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by babii-gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that is not something that you would want to do right now.
2006-06-17 21:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋