See the thing is that i love my boyfriend with ALL of my heart but i dont know if he feels the same way about me as I do him any1 got any advice they would like to share on the subject? PLZ help me!!
2006-06-17 14:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, hi! Boy, you remind me of ME.. I'm all crazy when I get bit by the love-bug too! It's kinda cool BUT on the other side (and it's "me" strictly here) I get all miserable at the same time I am 'in love.' I mean I worry myself sick about the fellah.. DOES he love me? Where is he right now? what is he doing? Is he thinking of me?! I mean, is this insecurity? (hell, I don't know? Like I said, I guess I thought it was just me!) Love's kinda miserable at times, don't ya think? It's impossible to tell you what this guy thinks as we don't know him like you do. You know his mannerisms, how he talks.. I think like I said you love love.. If someone told you something negative I think it'd hurt ya.. (I don't wanna.) For example, if someone wrote if he loves ya, he'd want to be with ya 24/7 (not all guys are LIKE that, tho!) it'd depress ya if he wasn't that kinda guy.. (See my point?) Everyone acts different (like totally!) in love. (Trust me, I know.. I'm old.. 53/F.) I say.. guys don't like to be 'pushed..' Don't ask him how he feels (I know.. somebody's gonna write ya to do just that, for advice..) Let him come to you, kinda! It's like playing hard to get, kinda. It's risky but you won't get as hurt in the long run. (I am guessing you are in the teens.) well, g'luck honey. We all go through this kinda ****.. UR not alone you know.. melancholia
2006-06-17 14:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be in a relationship, you have to put in as much as you get out of it. If he doesn't want to spend time with you, don't let it get to you. He will want you to do more things with him if you let it get to you. Then he will feel like you are to worried about him and it will build up his ego and he will feel like he doesn't need you, and he will find someone else. In time he will see that you do to him what he does to you. If he changes then he really loves you if not then obviously he doesn't love you. I know that the truth hurts but it is going to come to this sooner or later. Better then later because in the long run, YOU'LL be the ONLY ONE who gets HURT!!
2006-06-17 15:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stacey. I am Johnnie from SA TX. Listen its nothing wrong with love. just look at what level of love you both have with each other. know that the word love has a mixture of lust and hate as will be careful, dont let the law have to make you make the dedision you should have made.
2006-06-17 15:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom once told me no one loves the same as the other some one always loves more it's sad but true I feel I'm in that situation at this moment I feel like I love my bf more but people show love differently if you get in a situation and he's always there for you he loves you if he leaves you when you most need him he's an *** I don't know if I answered you're question or confused you
2006-06-17 14:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if you are wondering if he loves you that much, he probably doesn't because it would be quite evident if he did. If you have been with your bf for over a year, then ask him what his feelings are. Otherwise, look at the signs. Does he treat you like he loves you? Is he kind and considerate towards you? Does he treat you with respect? Has he told you that he loves you?
2006-06-17 14:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I Corinthians 13:4-8
IF THOSE MENTION ABOVE TRULY MANIFEST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
2006-06-17 14:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only way to really know is to ask him if he feels the same way.
good luck
2006-06-17 15:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks sounds like you need to get some self confidence,
2006-06-17 15:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never truely know, trust him, take notice of the way he treats you.
2006-06-17 14:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by leishie!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. May be he's cheating you. Be care-full.
2006-06-17 14:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋