One of my best friends told me a week ago that my boyfriend was cheating on me with a fricken 7th or 8th grader, and i dont know if its true becasuse he promised me he wouldnt cheat on me, and my friend has lied to me a lot before. But my boyfriend hasnt called me for a week and a day so im beginning to wonder. Is he really cheating on me?
2006-06-17 14:21:07 · 27 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is.
2006-06-17 14:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do no ask him straight up, like what the other answers say. Most responses are always a No. Honestly, who would actually tell the other peerson they were cheating unless they feel really badly about it.
If your best friend has lied to you alot before, she probally is lieing now. I understand that shes your best friend, thus should be a reliable source, but if your best friend has lied to you on a number of occassions, You shouldn't worry about what she says.
Sometimes people do get busy and may not find the time to call or see you. Just give it alittle more time and see if he calls. Also consider that this may be due to something that he cannot control, such as a death in the family, tests, problem with his parents, job, etc. Just try to keep in contact with him. Blowing up his cellphone with calls every minute or hour will look psycotic and desperate, try to stay away from that. Instead call him at a time when you feel he usually is not occupied with anything (such as before falling asleep,a few minutes before he leaves to school/work).
Also, a strong relationship is based alot on trust. If he says that he would not cheat, you should trust him that he would not cheat. He should expect the same thing for you. If YOU(not your freinds) honeslty think that he would cheat, then he probably is. You are supposed to be his girlfriend and is supposed to know alot about him to come to this conclusion. Also if he has cheated in a past relationship, most likely he will again.
So my overall answer is NO, HE MOST LIKELY IS NOT CHEATING. Just give it time and see what happens.
2006-06-17 21:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by dis_smirf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone who doesn't know you or him to follow him around for a week and see if he gets with some girl because its not you its not really stocking and if he hasn't called you in a week than move on because it sounds like hes an inconsiderate prick anyhow trust me it will only get worse- but before you jump the gun consider the fact that he may have some terminal illness in his family or something to that effect.
2006-06-17 21:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by WISHFUL THINKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in seven or eight grade that should be the least of your concern right now. You should only be friends without benefits ie, no making out etc. Your focus right now is School.
2006-06-17 21:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called you in 8 days then there IS something wrong, either that or he's simply occupied with doing something more important than contacting you. ask yourself, does he have other priorities other than your relationship? does he work? the only way to know for sure is to confront him about it.
2006-06-17 21:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you doubt him, dump him. My big thing is, why are you still friends with someone who lies to you all the time?? You deserve better than that. Lose the lame liar and find some real friends.
2006-06-17 21:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is talk to ur friend if she is telling the truth ask her to probe it to you....and to your boyfriend why don't you call him i guess u have the right to call him and to know what's going on.
2006-06-17 21:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by lzette_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having to wonder, then you already have your answer. He's probably seeing your lying friend. Dump 'em both and have a Coke and a smile.
2006-06-17 21:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont talk to your friend no more because your friend is going to continue lying and your boy friend dont believe in him because all the boys do the same break up with him even though if you like him so much
2006-06-17 21:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by ((¯`•¸·´¯)Canovanas(¯`·¸•´¯)) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called in a week then he probably is. Take my advice & act like you're not interested in him. Guys always want girls that they think they cant have.
2006-06-17 21:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think your friend would lie to you why are you friends with her. of course hes cheeating on you, if you can even call it that when you havent talked for over a week
2006-06-17 21:25:37 · answer #11 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋