how to meet a good women?

Question

all of the women that i date are just nuts so how do you find a good one that is not NUTS.so mybe some of you could help me out on this.

Answer 1

Yeah a lot of women are...maybe that's what women are about. i dunno.

Well if you are religious you could try church...I dunno
www.match.com?

I have found that women can be completely sane until they get into a relationship...somehow relationships make women crazy. There's no way to be sure the one you like is not crazy. You just have to risk it.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Buddy, you are asking the right person. I have this same problem too. It almost had me thinking that ALL women were nuts (sometimes I do) but all you gotta do is talk to a girl that is cute but doesn't catch your attention right away (don't always fall for the outside package like make up, nails, etc.) and get to know this gal and take it from there. Usually bad things speak louder that good things (I hope that makes sense) and that doesn't just apply to meeting women. Example: you ever have a day that you gotta work and you thought about skipping work and that voice in your head was speaking so loud that it almost convinced you to skip? Same thing here, you see 2 girls, one who is cute with a pleasant and presentable appearance but not flashy and the other cute but has her hair done, nails done, make-up and the whole show. Of the two most likely the flashy girl will catch your eye first but that is where you go wrong b/c 6 out of 10 times that girl will not be all that, she may have issues (insecurities which equals jealousy) or she may crave attention from men. That's just some of what may be going on in her head.

Answer 3

Do you want women, plural, or just a good woman, one woman? Today, as in any day, finding one good woman is rare. Somewhat akin to the Marines finding "a few good men." But it can be done. Look for one at church. Visit the book stores. The super market is not a bad place to look either. You have to be the one prepared to meet them, then find out if they are "nuts" or not. At least in these places, chances are less that they are flaky or too off the wall.

Answer 4

Trick with women, we are crazy, and often times we dont understand ourselves, oftentimes best to try and treat the emotion and not the why. [shh...its the secret to women that men everwhere have been looking for] There are a lot of nutty women that are just plain psycho, but there are a lot of nice women who are just wired a little more sentimental (read emotional) than others. You can try internet dating, but often times the girl potrayed and the girl you meet could be two differnt people so be careful with that as well. I wish you luck in your hunt...

PS How do I find a good man?

Answer 5

Hmmmm ... I used to have a saying that the first 3 men who approached me in a bar were mentally or emotionally wounded. The reality was I was choosing that way .... you need to look hard at yourself ... see what it is that makes you want to help the weak and wounded; and then decide that charity should be separate from your personal life. The fix begins with you .... maybe you love thinking of yourself as non-judgmental? liking all types of people? more accepting than the average bear? it's called enabling. I know I've been there ... put to paper what qualities are important to you - list out in detail the kind of woman you're looking for ... you can't get to where you're going without a clearly defined road-map. Best of luck!

Answer 6

You need to look at yourself first. See what you are attracted to and figure out why. You are probably doing a lot of similar things. You would need to change something to make that change in the women.

Answer 7

women are all pretty much nuts, you just have to figure out what kind of nutty behavior you can put up with.....then realize that nobody's perfect, and that you might be a little nuts yourself

Answer 8

Maybe try internet dating. Get to know them some first before you take them out. Nice screening process!

Answer 9

my mom said to me a long time ago, do not find love because it will find you. dont rush things. there must be somebody out there for you. take time to know friends and acquaintances, learn, talk and spend time with them. if the shoe doesnt fit, find a new one until you find your pefect crystal slippers.

Answer 10

a woman is only 'nuts' if the guy makes her that way...