I know this sounds crazy but I think I have or maybe it's just lust, I have no clue. I've watched this incredibly beautiful man on cam for the last 3 years, we've never met but omg every time I see him, I get goosebumps even after 3 years. We've talked on the phone...what the heck is going on? Better yet...what the heck I'm I doing???? Someone help me out here!!
2006-06-17 13:57:49 · 20 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no u r not crazy i myself fell in love to a online freiend we dont thing it crazy if u ask me continue ur love
2006-06-18 00:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by koush_kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends. The Inet has brought about a new way of relationships. AND, some may be considered weird. BUT, each person does have control over their situation. Some are friends, and some are lovers. So, you have to decide if this is OK for you! It may be Lust, many people in Physical relationships have had this and Break up within Months, as they become bored and want something new. Without the Physical interaction you two may actually experience a more Personal and Intimate Relationship. I really not know as I am not there. It really is something you need to think about. Try going out with a real person now and then and see if your Interest on-line Diminishes. Then you know if it Lust or an actual Love.
2006-06-17 14:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what may be happening is that you are in love with the idea of what might be as to opposed to reality. Many people fall in love online because we can say anything we want whether true or false and the other person will never know the truth. Online is safe if you never meet and I think that brings a lot of satisfaction to the table. Until two people meet in person, take the time to get to know each other, everything is a fantasy, a movie we play in our minds of how perfect a love this could be. More often than not, meeting in person, the chemistry isn't there and/or they find out the person they've been talking to isn't who they say they are. Its a sad fact, but true unfortunately. I don't know where you're from, but I would say, if you really want to find true love, look for it locally. Although not as safe, it is the world of reality. This way you can discover the real person, find if you are compatible and make better decisions as to whether you want to pursue it any further. Trust in your heart, you will soon find the love you so desire. Don't try to rush it, let it come when the time is right. In the meantime, enjoy life and let many warm smiles be your daily companion.
2006-06-23 16:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "Internet" is a great place for traffic, and traffickers. But marriages, love and proposals? ... I'm not sure.
But then, I've never done anything on the Internet that did not require a debit card, so I can return something in case I don't want it, or if it's the wrong size.
I can't imagine getting something online that I could not return if I did not like it.
After all, anything on the Internet is simply an "item" until it becomes real.
Your feelings no doubt are real.
The Internet is just a fiber optic cable transmitting billions of bits of information at a speed much too fast for the human eye to capture. And certainly, no match for what ails the heart.
Write to meet each other..
Person to person.
Eye to eye.
Follow your heart ... not your mouse!
2006-06-17 14:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's to say where love can or cannot happen. Love knows no boundaries. No wall can ever encompass it. No mountain could ever come between it. No river would be too deep for love to cross. Love is the greatest power there is. If love can be found in the midst of war, it can surely be found over the internet.
2006-06-17 14:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in the modern world. I've seen at least 3 cases, in which the on-line romance turned into marriage, and they all live happily. Good luck!
2006-06-17 14:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange a meeting in a public place and just talk go very slow and never alone until you know all about him. be very careful,meet his friends,theres a lot of creeps out there.
good looking stable men don't have to look on line but theres are exceptions.
2006-06-17 14:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by callman51 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say you're crazy. People meet amazing people in very random places. If you're sure he's not some weirdo, then you should be fine. The best of luck to you.
2006-06-17 13:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by chelmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of a few marriages that started out with an online encounter. It isn't crazy....as long as your aren't married to somebody else.
2006-06-17 13:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by girlonline64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl on line who is gorgeous and we talk for long amounts of time, i feel i love her but it only a fad, you need to meet and touch each other to discover if you in love
2006-06-17 14:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your crazy, really...
I fell in love with my girlfriend.. And I met her online...
She's my everything. But I've never seen her.But we've talked on the phone.
I love her voice..
2006-06-17 14:32:44 · answer #11 · answered by Moocat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋