Should I tell my friend?

Question

My friend is kinda seeing this guy (for about a week now). A few days ago, we were having a kickback at my house, and he was majorly hitting on me. He even went as far as saying that he would rather sleep with me than my friend. He was drunk, and so I'm hoping that is the reason he said all that stuff. I don't know what to do...should I tell my friend, or just forget about it?

Answer 1

Tell her. Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?

Answer 2

Yes u should tell u friend that her boyfriend is a drunk and that he's also a oversexed flirt.

Note: whenever someone says something well drunk or mad thats they're true feelings.


Anyway u really should tell her about this because this is something he may do all the time and she needs to know this.

U say she's ur friend, then be her friend and tell her.

Answer 3

Don't tell your friend just yet, it may only cause problems for you. Instead, tell the guy what he was doing when he was drunk and let him know you didn't appreciate it. Let him know you didn't say anything this time to your friend, but he does it again you will. Then follow through with it.

Answer 4

don't say anything just yet. if he does or says anything again tell him that if he does not stop talking or acting like that you will have no choice but to tell her but keep in mind most times friends think you are lying to them and will get mad at you for trying to be a good friend. so really there is no way of winning except staying true to yourself.i wish you all the best.

Answer 5

Yeah totally tell your friend so she can break it off with that looser before she catches some funky disease from him!!!! (or he breaks her heart). You'd tell her if you were a good friend. Sit her down and say, "Listen, I need to tell you that Bob hit on me last weekend when you were outside. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore. I'm telling you b/c you are my friend and I don't want to see you get hurt"

You need to stay the heck away from that guy. If he'll do this to your friend, he'll do it to you. Plus as they say, "Sisters over Misters"

If you wait too long it's going to seem suspicious. You need to tell her ASAP!

Answer 6

Child the best thing for you to do is to tell your friend because if youve told some one else then they would probaly tell your friend(if they know your freind then they might tell your friend)and you and your friend will probaly wouldnt want to talk to each other any more and we are here for relation ships and stuff but again you need to tell your friend..........

Answer 7

Tell your friend. That guy sounds like a real prize (sarcasm). I am sure she will appreciate hearing about it in the end..even if she is mad for a couple of days.

Answer 8

You should not tell your friend, trust me, that will bite you back. However, keep yourself from getting in that situation with him again...drinking is never a good social setting. Funny, though, how it is a cornerstone of "fun" in this country.

Answer 9

I would not tell her because it could backlash if she thinks alot of him. He will probably tell her you are lying. Who will she believe ? It will come out how he is on its own. Its not worth losing a friend. Just tell him to leave you alone.

Answer 10

I think you should stay out of telling your friend. Things have a way of coming out.

Answer 11

Tell her thats the best thing to do. Put yourself in her place wouldnt u want to know